"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reacting at some points.

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Hya all,

English is not my first language so firstly I've go to apologize you all. Since my seventeen years old, I hope I can make it better in a close future.

Just bring you something that might have been discussed before. Don't want to be arrogant but I'm a good looking guy but I've terrible shy and I'm overcoming it.

It's horrible for you, when you are walking in the shopping, hundred of eyes all around you. I cannot deal with that, I don't feel confortable.

For instance, girls in my country are terrible *****es. They join themselves in such a ****in' disguting way. They joke with people around and etc. How you would react if a group of girls says comments such as, ''pssst...psst...you're so pretty''. You know, just to approach....or sometimes they're just playing/joking with you.

In which way could you overcome the situation in the best way?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Metalixia
smile, and ask them their names.
If I answered that, they would probably joke me and asking their names doesn't seem a pretty good idea.

You know...something that would make me misterious and....for example...if they were interest...I would get in but If they're playing with you even if you're the coolest and the most beautiful guy on earth...I would just answering in the same way, playing with them...
 
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