"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Reaching the upper echelon

Bigworm

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Ive come to realize after bangin for a while average girls that --
its neccessary to really eastablish a nice social group - aka. "Friends"
Made up of cool guys and some cute girls to really be able to go up in social status. This accomplishes two things - one ur surrounded by successful guys who can social proof you and by cute girls who can get u in touch with your feminine side.
Youre asking urself -"why the fvck would i want to get in touch with my feminine side?"
i thought the same way - until i realized that girls were the getting the vibe that
i was hitting on them everytime i talked to them. this is bad news when it comes
to hotter girls.
IT IS VERY HARD IN COLLEGE ESPECIALLY - TO GO LONE WOLF STYLE AKA. GUNWITCH STYLE - and try to go the distance with an HB10 without any social status.
so I have decided to withdraw from gaming for a while - and concentrate on really building up a solid social network

wat do u guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vypros

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i thought the same way - until i realized that girls were the getting the vibe that
i was hitting on them everytime i talked to them. this is bad news when it comes
to hotter girls.
No, they are getting the vibe that you are hitting on them because YOU ARE!

Stop using bells and whistles. Stop using tips and tricks. Stop using lines or trying to be "****y and funny".

Learn how to be NATURAL and FUN, and you'll see marked changes in the way girls see you.

You don't need lines. You don't have to think about neg hits or DHVs. All you have to do is learn how to LISTEN to a girl and give her a hard time. All you have to do is learn how to be SOCIAL and FUN, and it won't come across as "hitting" on them at all.
 

Obsidian

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No, they are getting the vibe that you are hitting on them because YOU ARE!
his strategy is still probably valid.

imo, getting in the habit of hitting on girls is generally a good thing. Pook says you should try to lay off the people you work with or go to school with, tho. Otherwise you'll come across as a player, which will hurt you.

i think I've made that mistake at times. Hitting on all girls is better than being a chump with all girls, but it's still not the ideal place to be.
 

rakishness

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Bigworm said:
IT IS VERY HARD IN COLLEGE ESPECIALLY - TO GO LONE WOLF STYLE AKA. GUNWITCH STYLE - and try to go the distance with an HB10 without any social status.
In college...social proof is ESSENTIAL. Have it and you'll bang so many chicks it will be UNREAL. Don't have it....AND YOU ARE SCREWED.

It's good to see that some of you realize this.
 

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i think the added bonues is that you become more calibrated when u have a good social group - u can gauge better thru experience when its appropriate to keep it friendly and let her chase you - and when u can take initiative in a subtle
more smooth way. Not sloppy like my game kinna tends to towards - esp when i drink at parties.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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