Reaching the alpha ending with a woman

[kenpiffyjr]

So I'm pretty sure other guys have experienced this and I'm kinda hoping my story isn't such a unique one that many won't understand...but I think I reached a point with a female I've been seeing where the red pill showed me everything that is written here is true.

Let's just say over the weekend she and I were put in a situation where I kinda showed her she wasn't that big of a deal to me. All my words say one thing, but this event showed that maybe I'm not emotionally all there with her.

She comes over to my place last night and I can tell this "event" was still bothering her. But she also had this demeanor of something else I recognized before but only in women who were strippers. It was a "ok, I'm sick of you not falling for my games and seduce tactics by not being wrapped around my finger...where's your resources?" It's similar to going to a strip club, having a girl sit on your lap...but then see the awkwardness and her demeanor change when you are not pulling out money. She even flat out said after a moment of silence "I need my nails done!"

In this moment I realized everything was true about how women have an agenda to use you for their benefit more than just really feeling you. It felt like a moment where she had a malfunction and could no longer fake it. As if she was saying "ok, you won, you know how to play, I get it."

After a while when you are so aloof and so good at the game, females will give up and take off their mask. I know I reached a point now where I can leave a few bed crumbs here and there to make her think I may one day slip into beta provider (but never really slipping) or I can allow her to keep doing me but understand on the side she's looking for a beta provider.

Has anyone else ever reached this level with a woman where she flat out takes off her mask and shows you red pill is true?

 

[El Payaso]

Read The Predatory Female: A Field Guide to Dating and the Marriage-Divorce Industry

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0961593806/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_NnqBybSHH6FG5

It will teach you everything you need to know about women.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes but I was wearing a mask too (of indifference).

You have to with them. They feed off of your reactions ( of pain and humiliation ). Indifferent is the way.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Yea , usually happens around 5 mins before I end up fvcking her

If a woman’s remotely interested in you and you don’t react to her nonsense and keep pouring your male energy on her

anything is possible

 

[Glassguy]

When you are aloof, mysterious, out of touch, semi cold hearted, a tough egg to crack.......one of two things will happen:

1.) She will become very submissive and just accept it.

2.) She will grow tired of constantly chasing you and trying to earn your attention and bounce out, continuing the search for someone who will eventually be an emotional doormat for her.

There really is not that much in between, at least in all the women I have dated in my 39 years.

One of the 2 generally happens in the one to three months, or right at the time they bring up the talk about an exclusive relationship.

 

[Poon King]

Happens ALL the f*cking time.

This type of sh!t inspires most of what I post and why I post.

Men have so much power in this game.. but most of us are too busy being punk ass white nights to take advantage. It gets on my nerves watching all the men around me get manipulated by women every f*cking day. Then these same morons call ME an assh*le, pig, dog, etc. because I actually get what I want from women without turning into a sappy little b!tch boy.

What really boils my blood is current laws. Because these laws effect MY life too. If other men want to be faggots that's not my problem. But when the law forces men to be faggots I have a problem. So men need to wake up so we can change society in a way that is fair to men.

 

[Milano]

How about we start with not kissing their arseholes on social media? Liking all the girls pictures does not get you laid, dont give them that confidence they dont deserve it. Dont accept friendzone! So many guys like being there because "its better than nothing" and "perhaps I can trick her into ****ing me if we end up drunk at the same party one day" and crap like that

 

[C00lAF]

Yuuuuuup thats how you feel like a victorious man.when you reach this point you literaly wrap them around your fingers.

 

[fastlife]

@kenpiffyjr Remember her reaction. This is what you should expect from your dealings with women: in the future you can watch them make that realization much quicker, usually on the first approach. This is when they'll say things like, "I hate you," "You're an azzhole," and start acting a little depressed right before you have awesome sex with them.

However, DON'T OVER DO IT. Once a girl makes this realization that you're dominant over her, don't rub her face in it. Throw in some comfort & rapport--since it's coming from such a high value place, she'll appreciate it and it'll eliminate the Nuclear Sh1ttest before it happens. When you see her start to get that depressed look, simply holding her & looking into her eyes and saying something like, "You're awesome" will let her collapse into girly brightness. Then throw on some aloofness, a little c0cky-funny & repeat the process. Too much value relative to her, and she'll fvcking hate you; too much comfort, and she'll despise you. That might sound like a tight rope, but if you just start getting in touch with 'what feels right,' it'll happen naturally--but there's a good chance you'll blow yourself out with this girl and a couple to follow before you find your balance.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Thanks man. Just what I needed to hear. That's the bread crumbs I'm talking about. It is a very tight rope, and I think that's the real genius behind spinning plates because it actually helps with that tight spot a lot.

 

[devilkingx2]

How about we start with not kissing their arseholes on social media? Liking all the girls pictures does not get you laid, dont give them that confidence they dont deserve it. Dont accept friendzone! So many guys like being there because "its better than nothing" and "perhaps I can trick her into ****ing me if we end up drunk at the same party one day" and crap like that

i go out of my way to troll every girl who posts selfies that i have on social media. like posting stuff like "OMG so amazing... where did you get a lamp like that?" some of them like it more than others lmao but it's my way of breaking the mold