"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Re-post: What Don Juan Confidence Really Is (for the NOOBS haha)

Jester

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Yeah as i already said i posted this a long time ago. Just felt like it needs to be said once more for the NOOBS out there. hahahaha nooooobbs lolol



Confidence is NOT knowing you are the best
Confidence IS knowing you don't have to be.


done and done.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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Confidence, confidence is like, knowing that you're about to poop and farting anyway...

that's confidence
 

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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Confidence, confidence is like, knowing that you're about to poop and farting anyway...

that's confidence
NO, that`s not confidence Tthat is just risky
 
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