MrJack
Senior Don Juan
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You guys ever had good success a year later with certain chicks? First off, I never fvcked this girl so there’s that... but I think a good opportunity just presented itself due to the timing of two things.
1. We’re having a “rager” for my roommates birthday this Saturday at our place.
2. The girl I refer to below just added me on FaceBook a few days ago.
Summary below, let me know how you guys would go about “first contact” again.
Met this HB8-8.5 last summer at a beer garden and we had a decent vibe going. The interest was there at least at that point. Number closed that night. Then the next weekend or so, I had her and her friends meetup with myself and a few of my friends at a local bar (my group was a mix of guys and girls). Long story short, at the end of the night I kiss closed and after that night at some point (couple days later) I tried to setup a one on one date but she politely rejected for whatever reason and didn’t counter offer.
I literally just never texted her back and we never spoke again haha. It’s funny to look back on now because I know EXACTLY where I went wrong... I didn’t do jack shyt to sexually escalate. Very minimal kino, if any. She probably went along with the 3 second makeout to not make it awkward.
Now one thing important to note is that back then I was wayyy more blue pill than I am now but I think I just held on by a thread that night I kiss closed from my looks and having a couple wingwomen with us (Pre-selection I guess).
Firstly, would you guys re-open her on FaceBook since she just recently added me on there? Or should I just utilize the phone number I already have? Definitely don’t want to receive the dreaded “who’s this? Sorry new number” text lol.
Secondly, what’s the best type of first message to send? I know it’s gotta be short light and flirty/funny or whatever but I honestly can’t remember any sort of inside joke or something to say. And to be quite honest I don’t even want her to remember that version of me because I have changed so much since then. I have the confidence I can pull her if I get her in person.
Thanks in advance brothers.
1. We’re having a “rager” for my roommates birthday this Saturday at our place.
2. The girl I refer to below just added me on FaceBook a few days ago.
Summary below, let me know how you guys would go about “first contact” again.
Met this HB8-8.5 last summer at a beer garden and we had a decent vibe going. The interest was there at least at that point. Number closed that night. Then the next weekend or so, I had her and her friends meetup with myself and a few of my friends at a local bar (my group was a mix of guys and girls). Long story short, at the end of the night I kiss closed and after that night at some point (couple days later) I tried to setup a one on one date but she politely rejected for whatever reason and didn’t counter offer.
I literally just never texted her back and we never spoke again haha. It’s funny to look back on now because I know EXACTLY where I went wrong... I didn’t do jack shyt to sexually escalate. Very minimal kino, if any. She probably went along with the 3 second makeout to not make it awkward.
Now one thing important to note is that back then I was wayyy more blue pill than I am now but I think I just held on by a thread that night I kiss closed from my looks and having a couple wingwomen with us (Pre-selection I guess).
Firstly, would you guys re-open her on FaceBook since she just recently added me on there? Or should I just utilize the phone number I already have? Definitely don’t want to receive the dreaded “who’s this? Sorry new number” text lol.
Secondly, what’s the best type of first message to send? I know it’s gotta be short light and flirty/funny or whatever but I honestly can’t remember any sort of inside joke or something to say. And to be quite honest I don’t even want her to remember that version of me because I have changed so much since then. I have the confidence I can pull her if I get her in person.
Thanks in advance brothers.