"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Re: Meeting girls in High School

Masculinity

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Hey guys!

:yes: Yes, yes, I'm a newbie and you can tease me for being my 1st day in the website, but then I'll be one good contributor to this site and and answer others' questions, maybe your own!


Alright, down to business. I used to be really shy with girls and I overcame my fears and have gotten much better, I can now get dates and talk to girls/women more easily(although sometimes the butterflies do come up:p

Anyway, my problem is with meeting girls at school. I'm in my last year of high school and I always thought this would be the year when I'd be banging lots of chicks, but there's just this issue I have about talking to girls in school.
Outside school, I can talk to any girls and start a conversation and get her number, BUT in school I feel like I can't...any hints, comments, advice would be aprreciated, also if you hav ea question or a threat give me a link so I can take a look at it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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eaglez1177

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Well wait are we talking about girls from different schools? Is that what you mean by "outside school"?

Or can you still talk to girls that go to your school but just not during school?

Theyre two very different things.
 

nek08

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Lol eaglez.

Anyways, it's just like going to the mall and stuff u know, it's exactly like what you stated, "YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CAN'T". It's all in your head, it's the same as outside of school, you just have to look around.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Well wait are we talking about girls from different schools? Is that what you mean by "outside school"?

Or can you still talk to girls that go to your school but just not during school?

Theyre two very different things.
I can talk to girls as long as I don't meet them in school, like I don't have a problem approaching and talking to them that much, the problem is for some reason I just can't seem to come up with something to talk to girls while in school
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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