"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Re: Meeting girls in High School

Masculinity

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Hey guys!

:yes: Yes, yes, I'm a newbie and you can tease me for being my 1st day in the website, but then I'll be one good contributor to this site and and answer others' questions, maybe your own!


Alright, down to business. I used to be really shy with girls and I overcame my fears and have gotten much better, I can now get dates and talk to girls/women more easily(although sometimes the butterflies do come up:p

Anyway, my problem is with meeting girls at school. I'm in my last year of high school and I always thought this would be the year when I'd be banging lots of chicks, but there's just this issue I have about talking to girls in school.
Outside school, I can talk to any girls and start a conversation and get her number, BUT in school I feel like I can't...any hints, comments, advice would be aprreciated, also if you hav ea question or a threat give me a link so I can take a look at it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well wait are we talking about girls from different schools? Is that what you mean by "outside school"?

Or can you still talk to girls that go to your school but just not during school?

Theyre two very different things.
 

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Lol eaglez.

Anyways, it's just like going to the mall and stuff u know, it's exactly like what you stated, "YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CAN'T". It's all in your head, it's the same as outside of school, you just have to look around.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Well wait are we talking about girls from different schools? Is that what you mean by "outside school"?

Or can you still talk to girls that go to your school but just not during school?

Theyre two very different things.
I can talk to girls as long as I don't meet them in school, like I don't have a problem approaching and talking to them that much, the problem is for some reason I just can't seem to come up with something to talk to girls while in school
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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