Re-invite a girl

[Pr0lab]

Hi,

Long story short. I met some girl at friend gathering over the summer.
I invited her over a coffee, she said sure. But because she was living to school nothing worked out. I talk to her over the phone and I said "hey, you bailed out on me, you owe me coffee when you coming back"
Not she graduating from school at the end of December.

What should I do?
How to spark the attraction again and invite her for coffee?
I have chit chatted with her once over facebook but this is about it.

Any suggestions?

Thanks!

 

[Pr0lab]

anybody any thoughts?

 

[SchoolBoy]

Hi,

Long story short. I met some girl at friend gathering over the summer.
I invited her over a coffee, she said sure. But because she was living to school nothing worked out. I talk to her over the phone and I said "hey, you bailed out on me, you owe me coffee when you coming back"
Not she graduating from school at the end of December.

What should I do?
How to spark the attraction again and invite her for coffee?
I have chit chatted with her once over facebook but this is about it.

Any suggestions?

Thanks!

You invited her for a coffee date and she bailed on you. The only thing you can do is to either next her, or call her up again and ask for another date.

Whether she bails on the second date will give you the indication whether to move on with her or not.

Regarding you wanting to "spark the attraction again". I'm not sure if there was any attraction to begin with unless you guys hit off during the party where you met her.

The fact that she flaked on the first date attempt, she may have low interest in you at this point.

-SchoolBoy​

 

[Pr0lab]

any cool ideas or suggestion how to present it when I call her?

like "hey how is it going? I hope you did not forget about my coffee, because last girl mystically disappeared and she owed an just a espresso shot"

or something along these line?!