Hey guys,
I joined this site awhile ago but for the past few years I was busy with a lot of stuff going on to really put in my perspective.
Anyway, I've been lucky enough to have some free time lately with my new job and I've been spending it on the internet. Just thought
I'd check it out again (my last login was mid 2005).
To give you guys the low down about myself.
I'm 28, I grew up in Australia. Did well in school; placed in the top 2% of the country in my high school exams; finished university; got a great stable high paying job -- my mum was even going to line up a nice well qualified asian girl for me to get married to. She wasn't pretty but at least she had a good job, and seemed like the real family type.
But throughout all that time I was steadily growing increasingly dissatisfied with the direction my life was headed. I was sick of being the lonely nerdy asian guy that friends would just rang up to ask for computer advice and not much else. I was sick of having my entire life planned out for me, and how boring I knew it was all going to be.
After an incident on New Years Eve '02 when one of my friends took home and ****ed a girl I had a crush on.
I made up my my mind to do whatever it would take to become successful with women and to be able to live life the way I thought would make me happy and fulfilled.
So I dove into everything I could find related to picking up women. I stopped reading regular books and professional journals and completely devoted my time to books and websites on seduction and pick up.
(stuff like www.fastseduction.com etc)
I made friends with every guy I could find who seemed to know just about anything when it came to being able to pick up, and spent a lot of time learning what I could from them. Not to mention the countless hours spent in bars, clubs and on the street during the day getting over my fear of approaching women and trying out the various openers, routines and tactics I learnt on the internet.
To give you an idea of how socially retarded I was when I first started out:
I didn't even get my first number close until 6 months into learning game, I didn't get my first club make out until 11 months and I didn't get my first lay from "game" until 12 months.
That first year of massive frustration lay the foundations to an equally massive breakthrough in my thought processes - I stopped thinking of myself as being unattractive to women. I stopped blaming my looks, ethnicity, society and the girls themselves for my inability to get laid. I took responsibility for the way I felt about myself and how I wanted others to feel about me.
With the knowledge I learnt and the skills I developed I started redefining my identity as a being confident to the point of ****y, funny and most importantly self assured enough to not care what girls or rather just about anyone thought.
It was a pretty amazing feeling of freedom, and I remember that when I was relating it to a friend I compared it to that sense of excitement of having new worlds and possibilities open up to you when you finally go out and buy that game console or get that much needed computer upgrade (to give you an idea of how dorky I was).
So after that first frustrating year I found myself in the company of new friends, and many different girls. I was getting access to high end nightclubs and invites to super exclusive parties. I was dating and banging chicks I thought I would never even get a chance to talk to -- catwalk models, tv and movies actresses.
Towards the end of 2004 the guys of Real Social Dynamics heard word of me, and asked me to come to Project Hollywood to train to be one of their executive coaches. I've passed through their program and have been working for them since personally training hundreds of men improve their skills in picking up girls on bootcamp programs, workshops and seminars.
In 2005 I hooked up with another asian PUA called Loverboy and moved to Edinburgh, Scotland to work on our project PUAMEDIA. I've spent the last couple of years working in and travelling around Europe.
Recently since the start of this year I've gotten myself a contract with TS Studios as a video producer/director. And life has been pretty sweet.
New pic:
http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/4516/albumpicphpcr7.jpg
I'm the guy in the middle, those girls are models that worked for me and the guy on the far left is an ex-RSD student.
I joined this site awhile ago but for the past few years I was busy with a lot of stuff going on to really put in my perspective.
Anyway, I've been lucky enough to have some free time lately with my new job and I've been spending it on the internet. Just thought
I'd check it out again (my last login was mid 2005).
To give you guys the low down about myself.
I'm 28, I grew up in Australia. Did well in school; placed in the top 2% of the country in my high school exams; finished university; got a great stable high paying job -- my mum was even going to line up a nice well qualified asian girl for me to get married to. She wasn't pretty but at least she had a good job, and seemed like the real family type.
But throughout all that time I was steadily growing increasingly dissatisfied with the direction my life was headed. I was sick of being the lonely nerdy asian guy that friends would just rang up to ask for computer advice and not much else. I was sick of having my entire life planned out for me, and how boring I knew it was all going to be.
After an incident on New Years Eve '02 when one of my friends took home and ****ed a girl I had a crush on.
I made up my my mind to do whatever it would take to become successful with women and to be able to live life the way I thought would make me happy and fulfilled.
So I dove into everything I could find related to picking up women. I stopped reading regular books and professional journals and completely devoted my time to books and websites on seduction and pick up.
(stuff like www.fastseduction.com etc)
I made friends with every guy I could find who seemed to know just about anything when it came to being able to pick up, and spent a lot of time learning what I could from them. Not to mention the countless hours spent in bars, clubs and on the street during the day getting over my fear of approaching women and trying out the various openers, routines and tactics I learnt on the internet.
To give you an idea of how socially retarded I was when I first started out:
I didn't even get my first number close until 6 months into learning game, I didn't get my first club make out until 11 months and I didn't get my first lay from "game" until 12 months.
That first year of massive frustration lay the foundations to an equally massive breakthrough in my thought processes - I stopped thinking of myself as being unattractive to women. I stopped blaming my looks, ethnicity, society and the girls themselves for my inability to get laid. I took responsibility for the way I felt about myself and how I wanted others to feel about me.
With the knowledge I learnt and the skills I developed I started redefining my identity as a being confident to the point of ****y, funny and most importantly self assured enough to not care what girls or rather just about anyone thought.
It was a pretty amazing feeling of freedom, and I remember that when I was relating it to a friend I compared it to that sense of excitement of having new worlds and possibilities open up to you when you finally go out and buy that game console or get that much needed computer upgrade (to give you an idea of how dorky I was).
So after that first frustrating year I found myself in the company of new friends, and many different girls. I was getting access to high end nightclubs and invites to super exclusive parties. I was dating and banging chicks I thought I would never even get a chance to talk to -- catwalk models, tv and movies actresses.
Towards the end of 2004 the guys of Real Social Dynamics heard word of me, and asked me to come to Project Hollywood to train to be one of their executive coaches. I've passed through their program and have been working for them since personally training hundreds of men improve their skills in picking up girls on bootcamp programs, workshops and seminars.
In 2005 I hooked up with another asian PUA called Loverboy and moved to Edinburgh, Scotland to work on our project PUAMEDIA. I've spent the last couple of years working in and travelling around Europe.
Recently since the start of this year I've gotten myself a contract with TS Studios as a video producer/director. And life has been pretty sweet.
New pic:
http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/4516/albumpicphpcr7.jpg
I'm the guy in the middle, those girls are models that worked for me and the guy on the far left is an ex-RSD student.