Re-initiate contact with a former lay?

[SandHawk]

I recently discovered that the girl that I cheat with on my ex-gf has become single again. Just over 2 years ago, I cheated with this girl on my ex, which whom I was together for over 8 years. Mind you, that break up was the best thing that ever happened to me.

The girl was a pretty decent lay, however, I sorta kicked her to the curb after my ex discovered the whole cheating thing and things did not end well. I saw her once after that, and I'm sorta contemplating if it's smart to contact her and see if I can bang her brains out.

I have no intentions to date her or turn her into some sort of LTR as I'm seeing someone else with that potential. I just need some extra vagoo for when my main plate isn't around.

EDIT: The question is: Has any of you guys did a similar thing? And how did that work out? Any drama?

 

[sodbuster]

just talk to her as "friends",she'll make an excuse to put you in a position to score... or she won't.If she does,you have your side dish.

 

[Todd Preston]

"True Dat"

I think the problem is a girl will always be angry about being dumped. She will act nice and sweet and hang out with you, but she won't give you the cookie.

I'm sure there are exceptions, but if she's a decent HB, she is going to be p!ssed about being dumped, even if she doesn't show it. Her ego wants to dump you.

 

[L B]

There will always be drama. Just depends on how well you handle them. If you're just using her as a FB and she is willing, you should be fine. Just make sure she has no intention of ruining your real relationship.

 

[Falcon25]

Do you like going backwards in life? Or do you look forward to meeting new and maybe better women. The answer to this question will dictate who you are and what kind of a character you possess as a man.

 

[Kailex]

EDIT: The question is: Has any of you guys did a similar thing? And how did that work out? Any drama?

Save yourself the frustration of it not working out, if it does. Because the tables might turn on you and all of a sudden, you could end up wanting what you can't have.

She'll have in the back of her mind that you ditched her once.

It'd be a LOT easier if she came after you first. But in this case, you're the one doing the seeking, after you did the dumping. It gives her sole control of the frame.

 

[jophil28]

Save yourself the frustration of it not working out, if it does. Because the tables might turn on you and all of a sudden, you could end up wanting what you can't have.

She'll have in the back of her mind that you ditched her once.

It'd be a LOT easier if she came after you first. But in this case, you're the one doing the seeking, after you did the dumping. It gives her sole control of the frame.

Lots of wisdom here ^^^

You say that you "kicked her to the curb.."
Remember this thought until you are very old- women NEVER forgive or forget being rejected. If you go after her she will find a way of getting 'even' with you.
Your chances of converting her into a second string FB are beyond slim.

 

[SandHawk]

hm, lots of wisdom here. Back then the girl actually re-initiated contact after she found out I completely broke up with my ex, but since I was emotionally devastated, I only explained to her why I kinda harshly kicked her to the curb. She actually seemed understanding to it. However, since she started seeing someone at that time, and I wasn't the best conversationalist at that point, we lost touch.

I think I'll just stay away from this. She isn't a very interesting girl to hang out, only to go clubbing. Back then I fingered her on the dance floor in a club and she was a pretty good lay, but nothing I don't have right now. The only reason I would re-initiate contact is to prevent oneitis with my main plate and get some easy p*ssy. But maybe I should just game a different girl for that purpose.

Thanks a lot guys.