Re-Igniting Via Text?

[gravityeyelids]

Okay so i have this girl i met at the library like a month ago, number closed, and then we made plans to grab coffee a few days after that. I had sent a text that day to confirm. (We had said 3-4ish, so i sent a text around 3 saying "Wanna do 3:30?"). I didn't get any reply. Flake. Which kind of surpised me because she had had very high interest and was very receptive to meeting up.

However, now that i think back on it maybe it's not so much her blowing me off as her thinking that we weren't gonna meet up since i texted her so late and she just had other plans.

What are your guys' thoughts on going through your phone and trying to re-ignite old numbers that you thought were dead? I'm talking like weeks or even months since you've hit them up. I have dozens of failed numbers and i'm hesitant to delete them if i think there's a possibility

What would be a fun text to shoot her and try to re-open communication?

 

[Maximus Rex]

Really Bruh?

i sent a text around 3 saying "Wanna do 3:30?"). I didn't get any reply. Flake.

However, now that i think back on it maybe it's not so much her blowing me off as her thinking that we weren't gonna meet up since i texted her so late and she just had other plans.

Listen bruh, (and I'm telling you this from experience,) when a chick is wants to see you, she'll take it upon herself to come see and about you can confirm plans.

Case in point, HONEY and T.H.Y.C.E.A.C.. In HONEY's case, when she wanted to see me, she would do be rather persistent in doing so, and when I couldn't see her, she would want me to alter my plans to come and visit her. When we did make plans, not only would she call and confirm, if she felt as if I was taking too long to get to her, she would call me two or three times to find out where I was and how long it was going to take for me to get to her location.

Concerning T.H.Y.C.E.A.C., she approached me about going to the movies and she confirmed the plans (once with me in person.) When she initially asked me about the outgoing, I told her that I got out of school at 1:40, at 1:30 she left me a voicemail, again confirming the outing. I called her and told her I had some errands to run and I'd call her at 3:30. I feel asleep on the train and I was awaken by my phoning ring. It was 3:37 and it was T.H.Y.C.E.A.C. checking to see it we were still going to the movies.

Now here's the twist, I invited T.H.Y.C.E.A.C. over for tacos, when I went to confirm whether or not if she was still coming over for tacos, she was like . My response was, "Well, I guess you're not coming over for tacos." My point is when a chick has HL, she's not going to turn the opportunity to hang out with you and from the examples I've illustrated (and Harry Willimington,) confirms this,) if you've laid down your game right, she's going to CALL YOU to confirm.

Which kind of surpised me because she had had very high interest and was very receptive to meeting up.

Dude, this is a contradiction in terms. You can't have high interest and flake on somebody, the terms are mutually exclusive. What happened was that she was enjoying the moment and the attention you were showing her at the time. You failed because you didn't make an emotional connection with her.

However, now that i think back on it maybe it's not so much her blowing me off as her thinking that we weren't gonna meet up since i texted her so late and she just had other plans.

Dude, stop being in denial. As I stated before, if she was unclear about the plans, she would have contacted you for clarity or offered a counter offer.

What are your guys' thoughts on going through your phone and trying to re-ignite old numbers that you thought were dead? I'm talking like weeks or even months since you've hit them up. I have dozens of failed numbers and i'm hesitant to delete them if i think there's a possibility.

This might be cool as far as broadening your game after you've had some success, but in order to this, you need to be at an intermediate or advanced level.

What would be a fun text to shoot her and try to re-open communication?

And here's why. As I've often said on these boards, messing with a chick is a lot like training and housebreaking a puppy. With the puppy, you want to set boundaries, reap reward and praise for good behavior and punish and admonish bad behavior. Continuing on with this analogy, after Krypto has peed on your carpet, what would have happened if you praised him for it? Krypto would continue to relieve himself on your carpet. The same is true with this chick, by you chasing after her after she's clearly "said," to you that she doesn't want you, you're rewarding her bad behavior and you're also sending the message that you're desperate. The last thing you want to do is a set a bad precedent.

 

[gravityeyelids]

haha Maximus you're an a$$hole and i love it. Thank you for kicking some sense into me.