"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RE - Getting laid.

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I’ve been away from SoSuave for a bit, and have come back some to share the knowledge I’ve gained to stem the epidemic of pussification that is permeated throughout our society. If you don’t agree with what I have to say, find another thread. I don’t really care what you think or if you find my views offensive. They work, and they work very well.

First a couple things –

This thread is NOT about how to get a girlfriend/wife, move past the friend’s zone, or “what to do next”

This thread is NOT about solving your boyish problems with women, approaching them, or getting their number.

This thread is NOT about how to be a Pick Up Artist *big fvcking eye roll*

This thread is about getting laid, nothing else.


So it is common practice on this board that being a jerk, gets you “bad women.” More often than not, the people who preach this, aren’t getting anything above an 8, on a good day. They say that being an “alpha male” will get you the girl of your dreams.

Too bad it doesn’t, it gets you into a relationship, which is the last place you want to be.

Thus my first point, do NOT have a girlfriend until you’ve achieved what you want out of life. And if you’re under 25 (or without a degree) the rule is doubly implied for you. The only kinds of guys who keep a girlfriend are guys with no game, or guys who are still children and want a mommy figure to keep them company. Don’t use the term “lonely” either. TOUGH IT OUT. Be a fvcking man for a change, and find satisfaction with your own company.

Women are distractions. Women are dream killers. Women are money pits. So why allow one into your domain to suck up your time? Women should be treated as human urinals, nothing more. Don’t dignify these b1tches with compliments, MONEY, or large portions of your time.

It seems we forget that it is a PROVEN and undeniable fact that women love jerks. SO BECOME ONE. Be unreliable, don’t call her back, show up late (if at all) and be an arrogant man. It works. Now, I’m not saying be abusive in any way shape or form. A good way to gauge if you’re being a jerk is – If it would embarrass your mother, then it’s the correct thing to do.

Summation – Learn to live your life without being dependent on women, and treat them like sh1t.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Although I agree with your viewpoint about relationships, I think you need to easy up on the hostility towards women.

I was in a LTR for 3.5 years and now I live to regret it, but you learn from your mistakes. To say all women should be treated like "urinals" is just wrong. Don't get into relationships at a young age, yes, but don't treat women like garbage.
 

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I'm curious why did you break up?

And no, I'm not going to change the way I talk about women. Treating them like crap gets you results and in turn gets you laid.

Edit > A better question to ask you then is, why shouldn't I treat women like crap?
 

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Rhoto said:
I'm curious why did you break up?

And no, I'm not going to change the way I talk about women. Treating them like crap gets you results and in turn gets you laid.
Well most of it was my fault (became lazy and complacent, didn't have a job and wasn't really motivated to do much in life, got bored),and part of it was her wanting to test the waters I assume.

She kept giving me signs that she wanted a break so I just did it.

I agree treating them like crap generally gets you farther, but you shouldn't go around with the mindset that women are crap. If they were crap would we be on here exchanging tips and stories about picking them up?
 

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TheBaconator said:
Well most of it was my fault (became lazy and complacent, didn't have a job and wasn't really motivated to do much in life, got bored),and part of it was her wanting to test the waters I assume.
I really hope you've changed. You shouldn't settle for anything less than exceptional for yourself and your life.


TheBaconator said:
I agree treating them like crap generally gets you farther, but you shouldn't go around with the mindset that women are crap. If they were crap would we be on here exchanging tips and stories about picking them up?
I don't go around with the mindset that women are crap, I walk around with the mindset that I'm God. Women pick up on this very easily, and react accordingly. But I'm having company over, I'll be back in 45.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rhoto said:
I really hope you've changed. You shouldn't settle for anything less than exceptional for yourself and your life.



I don't go around with the mindset that women are crap, I walk around with the mindset that I'm God. Women pick up on this very easily, and react accordingly. But I'm having company over, I'll be back in 45.
Thanks man.

I get what you are saying, I just took your words as hostility towards women. I'm out to the clubs now myself, have a good one.
 
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