"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Re: Diesel's cutting guide

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Is there a difference in diet between workout and non-workout days? Diesel says one should consume most of the carbs after workout, but if on a specific day you don't work out, should they come in the morning, or should I cut them down?

This wasn't answered anywhere in the cutting guide thread.

Thanks!

EDIT: I'll log my progress from time to time here, along with any details worth mentioning.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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But what about carbs? Seems to me that one needs less carbs (energy) on days he doesn't work out. Also, how do you get so many grams of protein every day? He recommends # bodyweight * 2. So if you're 200 lbs, that's 400 g of protein. I take 2 shakes, each 80 g of protein. The rest is from tuna, cottage cheese, and some meat.
 

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But what about carbs? Seems to me that one needs less carbs (energy) on days he doesn't work out. Also, how do you get so many grams of protein every day? He recommends # bodyweight * 2. So if you're 200 lbs, that's 400 g of protein. I take 2 shakes, each 80 g of protein. The rest is from tuna, cottage cheese, and some meat.
You're right. The best use of carbs are after a workout. If you haven't worked out you won't need as many carbs, especially when cutting. Understand that the body can not assimilate tons of carbs efficiently unless it is either working at a high level or right after working at a high level.

As for the protein, I believe that number is when you are bulking. The body can not assimilate tons of protein at one sitting, thus the need to spread it out throughout the day. Also, if you are 200 lbs and are cut, you are probably already taking in the appropriate amount of protein already which would include massive amounts of real food protein along with shakes.
 

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As for the protein, I believe that number is when you are bulking.
He said 1.2-1.5g/# when bulking, and 2g/# when cutting. I've been following the cutting guide pretty much to the letter for about a week, after a week-long break-in phase of clean eating. I'm already noticing a bit of change.

Understand that the body can not assimilate tons of carbs efficiently unless it is either working at a high level or right after working at a high level.
That's true. The body puts excess energy into storage. Sometimes that excess comes from an oversized meal (hence 5-6 meals a day instead of 2-3 squares), and sometimes it comes from carbs at the wrong time.

Also, if you are 200 lbs and are cut, you are probably already taking in the appropriate amount of protein already which would include massive amounts of real food protein along with shakes.
Appropriate for maintainance?
 

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Is there a difference in diet between workout and non-workout days?
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The number of calories per day should be based on the number of calories you're going to use that day. Obviously you should have more calories the day you're going on a hike as compared to a day you're watching football on tv all day.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do oyu know how much protein/carbs is in a piece of salmon you eat?
 

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On to second week of the cutting guide. Lost about 2 lbs while actually increasing my squat and maintaining the rest. Over the last 2 weeks (including the break-in phase) I noticed some improvement on the body fat caliper. BF% - 17.5.
 
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