Here's my scenario....after months of flirting with me ( hugs, compliments ) this girl reluctanly mentioned that she is going away on a trip with her " boyfriend ". While she said it, she looked at me to see my reaction. What is going on?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Get some class, man. A real Don Juan doesn't mess with other people's girls.Originally posted by teedo
u shudnt let that stop you. ive messed around with chics that had bfs before and it was cool. noone came after me and they didnt want a relationship from it.
Actually he does, ya dumbass.Originally posted by Dudeman
Get some class, man. A real Don Juan doesn't mess with other people's girls.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Actually, he doesn't. Messing with other people's girls is a desperate move. DJ's get their own girls. Are you that much of a chump that you have to stoop to trying to steal people's girls? Would you want someone to mess with YOUR girl? Like I said, it ain't classy.Originally posted by Dudeman
Get some class, man. A real Don Juan doesn't mess with other people's girls.
That's because car salesmen are usually obnoxious and not classy, dude.Originally posted by teedo
why shudnt he go after this girl? if hes a better guy than the ones shes with theyll break up. if u were a car salesman you wouldnt stop trying to sell someone a car because they already have one, youd try to sell them a better one. if its soo soo bad to mess around with someones girl in ur minds, then get her to leave him first. would you stay with ur gf if a better one came along and wanted you more?? of course not. and it works both ways. also, anyone girl worth having is gonna have at least one or two guys already after her. i dont know any even remotely attractive girls that no guy is after,
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
this guy knows whats happenin. if u want somethin then **** everything and go and get itOriginally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Being a dj isn't about going after this girl and not that girl. Its about going after the girls you want. If he WANTS this girl, thats HIS ****ing business, not yours. He posted a thread requesting help attaining his desires... so help, or stfu.
You faggots who try and impress your judgement on everyone else are retarted. His morals are his and his alone, don't tell a man what women he can and cannot persue.
Have you ever seen Basic, the movie with John Travolta? In it he says, "murder is Basic: there are no secrets, everyone is capable of murder." Cheating is the same thing. For some people the conditions that "allow" them to cheat are less than others, but everyone has those conditions. Believe me.Originally posted by LikRetsam
I go by quality over quantity and a girl that is unfaithful or can not control herself from falling for other guys is not worth my time. Sure, you can get a chick and rock her world and she'll never glance twice at another guy... But how long could you keep it up?
If you can steal her from the other guy, becuase you are the better man, who's to stop that from happening to you?
As Drixsa said, you're centered on one girl (what I can tell from your 3 lines btw) and she has a boyfriend. Now I question wether you would have posted this if you got interrested in other chicks or got up and met other ones.
You need to meet my girlfriend. Lucky for you, you said just about.Originally posted by Superman X
I agree with Anthony on this one. Just about every single human being on the planet would cheat in a high school relationship if something better came their way, especially girls. This is mostly because they have the cheating opportunities come to them, while the men have to go out and actively make the opportunities (usually).
And yeah, it sounds like you have oneitis. You should go find some other chicks too, ones with boyfriends tend to crap out on you.
-Dan
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Damn Strait! You people need to respect your masters. Anthony knew more at 15 then you'll hope to know on your death bed. Don't believe me, Look up LorenzoOI and read some of the stuff he wrote when he was that age.Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Being a dj isn't about going after this girl and not that girl. Its about going after the girls you want.
Listen doofus, incase you didn't notice, I responded to what Teedo said, not the original poster. Second of all, you spelled "retarded" wrong. Thirdly, I have every right to express my opinion that it's not classy to go after girls who are basically hoes.Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Being a dj isn't about going after this girl and not that girl. Its about going after the girls you want. If he WANTS this girl, thats HIS ****ing business, not yours. He posted a thread requesting help attaining his desires... so help, or stfu.
You faggots who try and impress your judgement on everyone else are retarted. His morals are his and his alone, don't tell a man what women he can and cannot persue.
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOriginally posted by Dudeman
Listen doofus...you spelled "retarded" wrong.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.