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I have read much about Body Language with regard to being alpha, for example posture, the way one walks etc. However, when conversing with a HB should one use signs of interest with their body language, ie would it be better to show interest by leaning in on the coronal plane or by leaning back to suggest disinterest?

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I'd say on a coronal plane. If thats what you mean, by leaning inwards. That way, its easier for you to kino, as you are already in her little area of comfort, and if you game her, she will enjoy you in her area of comfort. Sitting back relaxed, i think is either for the MAsters or for people who are kinda afraid to get near the chick.
 

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hey...whats up bro.

I understand where you are coming from, from some experiences and hearing others comments as well....you know what, a lot of women actually HIDE their interest in body language, its like, they are interested, but dont show it, to see if you are confident with yourself or not, kind of like a test.

For example, key signs of interest are when she plays with her hair, crosses her legs this way, leans into you, etc.

Today, a lot of women are actually hiding these things to test you to see how confident you really are.
 

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but wait....did your question intail about your body language or hers? I might have not answered your question, haha
 

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Thanks for the replies - With my question I meant should I show signs of being interested in her, as she would do for me? Out of interest what are the signs of interest a male exhibits for females?

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Squaring your shoulders to her. Leaning into her. Looking right into her eyes. Smiling and asking her to do something!
 

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So you should offer 'interested' BL as opposed to coming across as disinterested? I thought that maybe coming across as interested would make you appear AFC?
 

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Dont start leaning in, it will make her lean out just stay straight, dont slouch basicly just look like you are comfortable with yourself.

The best thing to do to show intrest and confidence is smile and maintain eye contact.

Dont be afraid to sit neaxt to here, you dont have to sit as far away as possible, sitting in close proximity is a good thing!
 

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No it's not AFC .. you have to show some interest at some point if you like her alot. You'll find if it is mutual she'll be doing much of the same.

You don't 'lean in' per say, but you invite her to get close to look at something your doing. She may do the same, it's closing the space and getting more intimate than just talking to each other from across the room? Get it? Got it? Good!
 

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