"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Re - 12 Rules For Attracting Flocks Of Woman

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On the front page of So Suave a guy named De La Soul wrote a tip titled, 12 Rules For Attracting Flocks Of Woman.
In the article he advises aspiring DJ's not to wear a hat and that hot babes prefer guys who are clean shaved.
Mystery however wears a woolen hat and doesn't shave everyday, what do you think about these things.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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De La Soul? Isn't he the rapper in Feel Good Inc.?

And hey, it's true, they do prefer clean men, doesn't mean it's impossible to do it with a hat on though.
 

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Whatever, a lot of crap in these articles is hogwash. It works in the author's mind, hence it applies to everyone.

If you are not clean-shaven, or if you wear hats, and you are comfortable with that as an extension of You, do it for chrissakes.

If you change your looks to get "flocks of women" and you're still not really feeling your new look, you are being fake and the women you get will want the fake you.

ie, being what you're not. A lot of this stuff is about changing your behavior and thought patterns, true, but stupid crap like hats and facial hair should have nothing to do with anything.
 

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insidious says,

"A lot of this stuff is about changing your behavior and thought patterns, true, but stupid crap like hats and facial hair should have nothing to do with anything."

Yeah I know lol. Don't wear your Detroit Tigers BaseBall cap, because women will reject you if you do lol.

I mean, why can't guys just see the answer? The males that are sexual, are the males getting the sex lol.

You guys keep trying to study this particular guy, then that particular guy, there's no ONE TYPE OF GUY that gets laid. All the jerks don't get laid, all the thugs don't get laid, all the romantic guys don't, all the jocks don't.

Guys, for the life of me, all the SEXUAL GUYS GET LAID. The Sexual Guy could be any TYPE OF GUY! He could be nice, a jerk, a bad azz, a thug, a sales men, or even gay! (example, Lance Bass, Clay Aiken if he's really gay)

I mean guys come on, lol. Stop the insanity.

- DJF
 

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I wear hats and sport stubble, and get compliments from women on both.

It's like someone telling you, "Women prefer guys with dark hair" or "Women prefer guys who dress in preppy clothes". Show me 100 women who like one thing and I will show you 100 who like the exact opposite.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That guy's advice is actually pretty good (very basic but still good), but the whole appearance section is stupid.

I mean, come on "don't feel the need to wear socks in summer"? So you just want me to sweat up my Etnies? Get outta here. I don't know what sort of boring, generic chick this guy might be attracting with his style, but it's never a bad thing to peacock a bit to stand out from the crowd.

Just wear whatever suits your style.
 

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De La Soul is a poster from way back when this board was useful.
 

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it really isnt a deal breaker. i imagine he go to 11 and couldn't think of another
 
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