"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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On the front page of So Suave a guy named De La Soul wrote a tip titled, 12 Rules For Attracting Flocks Of Woman.
In the article he advises aspiring DJ's not to wear a hat and that hot babes prefer guys who are clean shaved.
Mystery however wears a woolen hat and doesn't shave everyday, what do you think about these things.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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De La Soul? Isn't he the rapper in Feel Good Inc.?

And hey, it's true, they do prefer clean men, doesn't mean it's impossible to do it with a hat on though.
 

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Whatever, a lot of crap in these articles is hogwash. It works in the author's mind, hence it applies to everyone.

If you are not clean-shaven, or if you wear hats, and you are comfortable with that as an extension of You, do it for chrissakes.

If you change your looks to get "flocks of women" and you're still not really feeling your new look, you are being fake and the women you get will want the fake you.

ie, being what you're not. A lot of this stuff is about changing your behavior and thought patterns, true, but stupid crap like hats and facial hair should have nothing to do with anything.
 

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insidious says,

"A lot of this stuff is about changing your behavior and thought patterns, true, but stupid crap like hats and facial hair should have nothing to do with anything."

Yeah I know lol. Don't wear your Detroit Tigers BaseBall cap, because women will reject you if you do lol.

I mean, why can't guys just see the answer? The males that are sexual, are the males getting the sex lol.

You guys keep trying to study this particular guy, then that particular guy, there's no ONE TYPE OF GUY that gets laid. All the jerks don't get laid, all the thugs don't get laid, all the romantic guys don't, all the jocks don't.

Guys, for the life of me, all the SEXUAL GUYS GET LAID. The Sexual Guy could be any TYPE OF GUY! He could be nice, a jerk, a bad azz, a thug, a sales men, or even gay! (example, Lance Bass, Clay Aiken if he's really gay)

I mean guys come on, lol. Stop the insanity.

- DJF
 

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I wear hats and sport stubble, and get compliments from women on both.

It's like someone telling you, "Women prefer guys with dark hair" or "Women prefer guys who dress in preppy clothes". Show me 100 women who like one thing and I will show you 100 who like the exact opposite.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That guy's advice is actually pretty good (very basic but still good), but the whole appearance section is stupid.

I mean, come on "don't feel the need to wear socks in summer"? So you just want me to sweat up my Etnies? Get outta here. I don't know what sort of boring, generic chick this guy might be attracting with his style, but it's never a bad thing to peacock a bit to stand out from the crowd.

Just wear whatever suits your style.
 

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De La Soul is a poster from way back when this board was useful.
 

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it really isnt a deal breaker. i imagine he go to 11 and couldn't think of another
 
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