"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it's amazing how these women now a days have no fear of STD'S like aids. It's almost like they treat them like common colds allowing guys to raw dawg the first night. I went out on a date with a woman a while back and sexed her up the first night. In the middle of making out she said something to the effect of if you don't have a condom it's all right and that's not the only time that's happened to me. I'm sure the part of their brain that's baby crazy overrides the survival part.

Yeah boning without a condom is fabulous but im not going raw dawg with someone I just met hours ago till we get tested and that's not even really safe with these disloyal hoes now a days.

What are your guys view of when to go raw dawg with a woman?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bible_Belt

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Testing is kind of a joke. Serious stuff like HIV has an incubation period, where she might test negative but still be infected. And they also tell everyone they have HPV and herpes, because almost everyone will test positive for the antibodies.

If you are just looking to get off, a mouth is a lot safer than a vagina. The girl I am with now made me use a condom at first. I went along with it, but for about a month or so, our sex life was just her blowing me, because I liked that better than sex with a condom.
 

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Enabled and Entitled = "It will never happen to me" and so on...

And so on...
 

Masculinity

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it's amazing how these women now a days have no fear of STD'S like aids. It's almost like they treat them like common colds allowing guys to raw dawg the first night. I went out on a date with a woman a while back and sexed her up the first night. In the middle of making out she said something to the effect of if you don't have a condom it's all right and that's not the only time that's happened to me. I'm sure the part of their brain that's baby crazy overrides the survival part.

Yeah boning without a condom is fabulous but im not going raw dawg with someone I just met hours ago till we get tested and that's not even really safe with these disloyal hoes now a days.

What are your guys view of when to go raw dawg with a woman?
I think you've the right mindset. If the tests weren't effective, they wouldn't exist. I'm not putting my pen!s into untested hooch. Not only is there a risk of STDs, but also the chance of conception. A friend of mine just got an STD and it's no joke.

I'm not trading 40 minutes of action for neither 18 years of child nor an infection I'll have the rest of my life. I wear a glove and don't go unprotected unless we're exclusive and I can confirm she's on birth control. Event then, pregnancy is a chance and people do cheat, but one can greatly reduce the odds vs. banging women you newly met.
 

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it's amazing how these women now a days have no fear of STD'S like aids. It's almost like they treat them like common colds allowing guys to raw dawg the first night. I went out on a date with a woman a while back and sexed her up the first night. In the middle of making out she said something to the effect of if you don't have a condom it's all right and that's not the only time that's happened to me. I'm sure the part of their brain that's baby crazy overrides the survival part.


What are your guys view of when to go raw dawg with a woman?
As far as the actual act of raw dawgin' on the first date, I am definitely against it because of the health risk HOWEVER in the moment it is very difficult to not go in when you don't have condoms. I've done a few moronic things in that regard I regret. Herpes is the big one to fear, HIV really isn't a concern in terms of the likelyhood of contracting it this way. In order for a man to catch HIV from unprotected sex with a woman you would have to bang a woman unprotected who you know for a fact has HIV for 2+ years to put yourself in a situation where you need to worry about it - that's how hard it is to transit woman to man - obviously no excuses to f*ck around with it though.

I think the biggest takeaway is knowing that any woman who is fine with you doing this on a first date is a who*re. No questions asked. I think it's one of the best ways to tell if you're dealing with trash or not,ESPECIALLY if she says something like "it's been a while" and has no problem with you going in raw. Total mega #1 who*re tell available.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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