"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Raunchy sex or passionate sex?

Tornado2

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I'm 15, I've had sex with my g/f a few times, one of the times she leaked all over my sheets. I've only been with the slut for 2 weeks, but anyway...

in a long commited relationship (say over a year or so) what kind of sex do people usually have? passionate, hugging, slow type sex? or I'm gonna f** your brains out get on the floor type sex? cuz in a serious relationship where you both really care about someone, I couldn't imagine banging each other so hard and dirty like they do in most porn movies. I dunno, just seems like hooker sex.

it's a serious question BTW because I've never been in that situation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if I could get just 1 insightful reply to this I would be appreciative.
 

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lol!you called her a slut

seriously though just be happy your getting laid at 15,im 17 and iv gotten sex just 3 months ago from a slutty ass chick for the first time.I always think the earlier the better.
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
lol!you called her a slut

seriously though just be happy your getting laid at 15,im 17 and iv gotten sex just 3 months ago from a slutty ass chick for the first time.I always think the earlier the better.
So does this mean both of you are slvts? You know, she did "it" so she is a slvt, you did "it" so you must be....:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Good_ol_boy

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Good to see someone with a sence of humor!!!:cheer:
 

smoke city

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in a long commited relationship (say over a year or so) what kind of sex do people usually have? passionate, hugging, slow type sex? or I'm gonna f** your brains out get on the floor type sex? cuz in a serious relationship where you both really care about someone, I couldn't imagine banging each other so hard and dirty like they do in most porn movies. I dunno, just seems like hooker sex.
It totally depends on the people involved. sure you can have crazy sex in relationships. by the way -- since you'd like to know -- the sex that you see in porn movies is not totally realistic. In reality, sex can be MUCH MORE crazy than that. I've had women ask me to do things i had no idea people did...

anyway -- always be sure you're in touch with what your woman wants. the more you pay attention to this, the better at pleasing women you'll become. and the better at pleasing women you become...well...you get it.

oh. and don't EVER call your woman a slut. not to anybody. not ever.


good luck.
 
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