"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Raunchy sex or passionate sex?

Tornado2

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I'm 15, I've had sex with my g/f a few times, one of the times she leaked all over my sheets. I've only been with the slut for 2 weeks, but anyway...

in a long commited relationship (say over a year or so) what kind of sex do people usually have? passionate, hugging, slow type sex? or I'm gonna f** your brains out get on the floor type sex? cuz in a serious relationship where you both really care about someone, I couldn't imagine banging each other so hard and dirty like they do in most porn movies. I dunno, just seems like hooker sex.

it's a serious question BTW because I've never been in that situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tornado2

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if I could get just 1 insightful reply to this I would be appreciative.
 

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lol!you called her a slut

seriously though just be happy your getting laid at 15,im 17 and iv gotten sex just 3 months ago from a slutty ass chick for the first time.I always think the earlier the better.
 

Good_ol_boy

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Originally posted by mroriginal
lol!you called her a slut

seriously though just be happy your getting laid at 15,im 17 and iv gotten sex just 3 months ago from a slutty ass chick for the first time.I always think the earlier the better.
So does this mean both of you are slvts? You know, she did "it" so she is a slvt, you did "it" so you must be....:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good_ol_boy

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Good to see someone with a sence of humor!!!:cheer:
 

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in a long commited relationship (say over a year or so) what kind of sex do people usually have? passionate, hugging, slow type sex? or I'm gonna f** your brains out get on the floor type sex? cuz in a serious relationship where you both really care about someone, I couldn't imagine banging each other so hard and dirty like they do in most porn movies. I dunno, just seems like hooker sex.
It totally depends on the people involved. sure you can have crazy sex in relationships. by the way -- since you'd like to know -- the sex that you see in porn movies is not totally realistic. In reality, sex can be MUCH MORE crazy than that. I've had women ask me to do things i had no idea people did...

anyway -- always be sure you're in touch with what your woman wants. the more you pay attention to this, the better at pleasing women you'll become. and the better at pleasing women you become...well...you get it.

oh. and don't EVER call your woman a slut. not to anybody. not ever.


good luck.
 
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