"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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r_j_goebel

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So this HB# system that is being used... What does the HB stand for.?

95% of hotness of girls has to do with looks, usually, personality.. and confidence. but With guys.. Whats the difference, whats the breakdown? Girls seem to have a lot more 'criteria' than men do. IE social proof is huge to many girls. Physical attraction is less important for some as compared to others... Money making abilities are important for those that want to have kids and all that white picket **** eventually...

This universal rating system isnt REALLY universal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scales are subjective. We all will have a different version of what HB9 means. The point is we all will have the same reaction to our own relative HB9 for discussion purposes.

There is no point to trying to establish a universal scale as attraction is relative.
 
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