"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rating system for girls

r_j_goebel

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So this HB# system that is being used... What does the HB stand for.?

95% of hotness of girls has to do with looks, usually, personality.. and confidence. but With guys.. Whats the difference, whats the breakdown? Girls seem to have a lot more 'criteria' than men do. IE social proof is huge to many girls. Physical attraction is less important for some as compared to others... Money making abilities are important for those that want to have kids and all that white picket **** eventually...

This universal rating system isnt REALLY universal.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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flexion_

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Scales are subjective. We all will have a different version of what HB9 means. The point is we all will have the same reaction to our own relative HB9 for discussion purposes.

There is no point to trying to establish a universal scale as attraction is relative.
 
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