"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sato21m

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sup fellas i'm talking with this girl i met her online she lives like an hour from where i live here is her piccheck it out

plus i need some help in this area i dont have experience in online dating.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's do-able. She's also more "open-minded" than other girls, I'd put money on her virginity being long gone, and her musical preference being rock. Check out the piercing underneath her lip.

Tips for online dating:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=65553&highlight=online
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=63663&highlight=online
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59212&highlight=online

And about 141 other threads with "online" in the title:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=32372&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending

That's it for me; time to go to the NYE party!
 

Sato21m

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damn i didnt notice her piercing good eye. dont worry all i want is to bang her something like a fb
 

Vincent

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Whoa, man face.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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