Atom Smasher said:4.5
Robyn, if you like her just go out with her. You shouldn't need validation from us. The only question is, how does she look to YOU? If she's a 6 or 8 to you, then that's great.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Atom Smasher said:4.5
Robyn, if you like her just go out with her. You shouldn't need validation from us. The only question is, how does she look to YOU? If she's a 6 or 8 to you, then that's great.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Say what you feel, don't hold back. :crackup:SgtSplacker said:She's just a regular kinda ugly girl. I would not date this girl at all. Her feet are crooked and her cheeks stick out farther than her nose and lips. She has small breasts. The only reason she is cute is because she is young, when she gets older and gains weight she will look like a hideous owl beast.