Atom Smasher said:4.5
Robyn, if you like her just go out with her. You shouldn't need validation from us. The only question is, how does she look to YOU? If she's a 6 or 8 to you, then that's great.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher said:4.5
Robyn, if you like her just go out with her. You shouldn't need validation from us. The only question is, how does she look to YOU? If she's a 6 or 8 to you, then that's great.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Say what you feel, don't hold back. :crackup:SgtSplacker said:She's just a regular kinda ugly girl. I would not date this girl at all. Her feet are crooked and her cheeks stick out farther than her nose and lips. She has small breasts. The only reason she is cute is because she is young, when she gets older and gains weight she will look like a hideous owl beast.