"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rate This Girl (#3)

Rate this girl

  • 10 - Gorgeous

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • 9 - Super hot

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 8 - Hot

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • 7 - Attractive

    Votes: 8 42.1%
  • 6 - Slightly above average (and I hate white people)

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • 5 - Average (and I'm gay)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 1

    Votes: 1 5.3%

  • Total voters
    19

bigneil

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Disclaimer - this girl is just a friend. What do you think?









 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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8 to 9 by American standards, would have wealthier guys fighting to get with her. Looks like the kind of girl that would turn heads when she walks through the door, arm candy and trophy wife material.

Went for the high school QB when she was in high school.

College athlete or frat bro when she was in college.

Some wall street douche when she got older.
 

Scars

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I like her ass, that's definitely a make it or break it for me, I'm a sucker for a girl with a beautiful ass.... I feel like all these pics were candid and taken off guard, but she still looks somewhat decent. I wonder how she would look after a million selfies and filters. Nice ass, kinda got a weird face/nose though, and looks like she is developing a beer gut, if she doesn't have one already, she will have one soon. **** her before she self destructs.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso

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Her only good picture is the one where she's playing pool. The rest are meh.
 

old_skoolr

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Too much a.ss posing makes me think that's the only attractive trait she has.

She does have a nose on her man.

id go 7 but it be only for the a.ss
 

PeasantPlayer

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She has slutty sex appeal, decent legs, 5 1/2 5 3/4 those quarter points from sex appeal though
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BeTheChange

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Atleast a 7, even with the questionable face and flat chest, because dat ass though
 

Trunks

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6-6.5, but I don't hate white people. Sorry to disappoint you, bud ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigneil

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Her average rating is 7 which seems low. Some said face is meh? Average? If they would please show me a prettier girl (who they know) I'd appreciate it. A 9 would have to be 50% hotter than her if she is a 6. The fact she makes $11,000 a month standing naked on a stage should be an indication she is not average. Again, she is just a friend so I am neutral on the matter.



 

dustmuffin

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I like her. I think she is very attractive. I would guess russian ethnicity. But hell, who cares nice looking girl.
 

logicallefty

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I would grab them pig tails and bob that head like a bobble head.
 

zekko

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Pretty face, I'm curious about her ethnicity/ancestry. She does have an Eastern European look to her.

Even with the implants, boobs are kind of smallish for me. That's a matter of taste though. I bet they get bigger as she gets older. Still not going to rate her. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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