"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well for me, 6's are substandard but I respect your opinion. I see now everyone has different tastes and its interesting to see from this thread !
Azn's automatically get extra points and white and black girls automatically get deducted points... lol my scale is so biased...
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^ ^ Finally, because you guys tastes interest me sooo much... Please rate my ex-gf. She's an 8 in my opinion... lol i wouldn't be surprised if you guys say 6 !!
-Cod3r
come on G you can't TRULY rate a girl till you see her naked. thats a face pic. unacceptable!Cod3r said:Well for me, 6's are substandard but I respect your opinion. I see now everyone has different tastes and its interesting to see from this thread !
Azn's automatically get extra points and white and black girls automatically get deducted points... lol my scale is so biased...
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^ ^ Finally, because you guys tastes interest me sooo much... Please rate my ex-gf. She's an 8 in my opinion... lol i wouldn't be surprised if you guys say 6 !!
-Cod3r
next!
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
not so fast homey.. my ex is hotter than your ex! and your current girl has a fugly face.. sorry bro for the truth!Cod3r said:^ ^ I just find it funny that most guys on here have ridiculously high standards and yet 99% of them will never attain these women...
Like you chief
-Cod3r
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonDan said:
lol.. not yet... he just is seeming like he's on some happy bullsh!t.. lol.. trying to say 99 percent of people here will never get a hot woman... just want him to clarify this post:
"I just find it funny that most guys on here have ridiculously high standards and yet 99% of them will never attain these women..."
That's MR. Chief to you.Cod3r said:
When you address me end your sentence with SIR.
BTW I'm sure you didn't mean to insult 99 percent of people here saying they can't get a decent looking woman.
I'm so offended!!! you b@stard!!!!!! how could you!
Lesson learned: dont post ex girlfriends on the internet!
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now what can I do with this pic.. things that make you go HMMMMM!
Maybe I'll give that myspace page a little visit!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.