"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you guys think? Just curious.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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These kind of posts are so lame. You don't need a bunch of DUDES on a forum's permission to go after a female. Who cares what we think. Do YOU like her is all that matters.

I would hit it also. Is that enough for ya?
 

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Yeah thanks for your input.
 

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Looks old for my taste. But I would say a 6. If I was 40 y/o myself I would have given her 8
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just as someone already said it should not matter whether she is a 10 or a 1. Don't allow anyone in a forum to dicide if a woman looks good enough for you or not.
 

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amoka said:
Just as someone already said it should not matter whether she is a 10 or a 1. Don't allow anyone in a forum to dicide if a woman looks good enough for you or not.
I'm not. To me she's a 7.5-8. I was just curious.
 

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amoka said:
Just as someone already said it should not matter whether she is a 10 or a 1. Don't allow anyone in a forum to dicide if a woman looks good enough for you or not.
Real talk right here.

Like I think she's a 3 but if I were to post a pic of a girl, some of you would say like 2 or something.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GS750 said:


What do you guys think? Just curious.
With her leg and face, I'd give her a 6. Potential of being a 7 with right make up and clothing and potential of being a 5 on a bad day.


_sideways_ said:
Wow...and other posters gave this girl a 5-6.
http://imgur.com/R1K4VDl

http://imgur.com/cVid9DU
Now this chic, I'd give a 7, potential of 8 on a good day and a 6 on a bad day



What would you rate this chic, just to make sure my meter isnt broken. I give her a 9. Potential of 10 on a good day and 8 when she rolls off the bed.

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/522769469220715234/
 

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Quote:
Originally Posted by GS750
http://i60.tinypic.com/cqkhf.jpg

What do you guys think? Just curious.
With her leg and face, I'd give her a 6. Potential of being a 7 with right make up and clothing and potential of being a 5 on a bad day. Id left swipe this chick. Nothing about her is my type. She looks weathered. Soccer mom, out at the Borgata drinking boxed wine in the hotel room. She looks 41 and that lipstick screams covering up broken dreams. Her spray tan also matchs her surroundings like a lizard. NO rating. Wouldn’t even compute for me. Id ignore her or pawn her off on my buddies.


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Wow...and other posters gave this girl a 5-6.
http://imgur.com/R1K4VDl

http://imgur.com/cVid9DU

Now this chic, I'd give a 7, potential of 8 on a good day and a 6 on a bad day
I like this girl much better. Looks warmer but with daddy issues. This girl would be a dangerous mix of super sweet and "where is this relationship going" questions by the third date. And... anytime she didn’t like your answer she would cry to her ex BF about how she misses him but they could never work again. Then once you do commit and open up, she would friend zone you. HB7.5



What would you rate this chic, just to make sure my meter isnt broken. I give her a 9. Potential of 10 on a good day and 8 when she rolls off the bed.

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/522769469220715234/

This girl is clearly the sexiest of the thots. Girl next store with an edge. She is symmetrical and warm. Looks fit. Her biggest problem is she knows it all and has an inflated ego. She used to play the sax in high school and still peruses music and a higher education degree, but does not excel at school because she is always checking her Instagram. She is hoping to land the man of her dreams because she has 150k in student loans. She knows shell never make it back in the job force like she once thought, but still wants to go to the Hamptons. So instead of her own success she'll use yours. That part she does not think about consciously. Drive a luxury vehicle, be able to pronounce Hermes, were a scarf and have 50's instead of 20 in your wallet and she is all yours for the night. Praise her hard work and independent spirit and don’t mention her looks and send me pictures of her ass. HB 9

I really see no problem in asking what your "friends" think about a girl. Of course its all subjective and a little juvinile,but so what. We are guys. Show off or gain perspective. Its fun to act a little silly sometimes and tell your buddy to smell your fingers after a night of fun. Relax with the philosophizing a little bathroom banntering about how hot a girl is. Its fun. This is all supposed to be a little fun.
 

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I'd be curious to know how old she is. She does look old in the face, although she's kept in shape and has a nice body. She doesn't look like the type who is going to age well though. I'll give her a 6, maybe a 7 if I'm generous. Certainly doable.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Definitely 8 :).
 

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zekko said:
I'd be curious to know how old she is. She does look old in the face, although she's kept in shape and has a nice body. She doesn't look like the type who is going to age well though. I'll give her a 6, maybe a 7 if I'm generous. Certainly doable.
35...or so she claims. We all know women lie about their age. :rolleyes:
 

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I dont know but an over 35 yr old cant be an 8.

Tummy is saggy compared to young girl.

Her face might be in good condition...but the insides are starting to lose their tensile strength. If you catch my drift.

Plus this lady is obviously thicker and looser when she takes off that tight clothing.
 

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She's a 6. But definitely a milf. I'm sure she has a very high sex drive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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