"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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skeeloo

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you look better with short hair, i dont rate guys since im not gay but maybe id say ur a 6.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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justAd1ck

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Originally posted by skeeloo
you look better with short hair, i dont rate guys since im not gay but maybe id say ur a 6.
rating a guy doesn't mean that you're gay. If you think so then you're probably insecure about your sexuality.
 

Giuseppe Notte

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You are a normal looking guy, with little modifications you can improve your rating by at least 2 points. The guys above me have said good things.

1, Don't wear glasses. Use contact lenses instead.
2, Experiment with different haircuts. Go to a master hairdresser and ask him/her for advice.
3, Work out a little bit. This is not necessary, but you would feel better.
4, Change your clothes.

From looking at you I can tell that you could go for an elegant style. Have you tried wearing an elegant sports suit when going out? Get a cool shirt, a pair of trousers with polished black shoes and a suit. Ask one of your women friends for advice.

And also work on your inner game. You don't need anyone else's validation. Be what you DARE to be.

Good luck!
 

Don_Joffe

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What Ive noticed about people in my 18 years of life and I reckon Im experienced with girls is that WITHOUT looks you can never be a Don Juan. I dont care about ppl that are ugly and have a HOT chick, yes thats true, But how often can they PULL that off? You think you can get 100 hot ones if you are ugly? This is how it works, if you are good looking and its not hard to tell these days who is and who isnt your percentages with woman will be HIGHER than the average looking guy. LADawg- If i WERE You Id go for your standards..nothing above a HB 6.
 

Juan_Man

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LADawg, you can easily become a stud. Here's what you do:

1. Keep that hair short!
2. Wear dark clothing when you go to the clubs (Long-sleeve, black dress shirt, khaki colored pants, black boots, etc.)
3. Wear contacts or thin-framed glasses.
4. Get a nice silver watch. Nothing expensive but something that looks good.
5. Avoid baggy clothes and jerseys. You look like you are trying too hard in those second round of photos.

You look kind of tall but your arms are kind of flabby, which I why I suggest long-sleeve shirts (you don't really need to work out). Your height combined with the look I laid out for you will get you the ladies.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tha Realnezz

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I say more polishing is all you need.Mess with your hair a lil bit.Better gear..that's all.
 

LADawg49

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Juan Man, you gave some good suggestions I must say:
1. Keep that hair short!
- Excellent suggestion. I actually prefer keeping my hair short.
2. Wear dark clothing when you go to the clubs (Long-sleeve, black dress shirt, khaki colored pants, black boots, etc.)
- As for clothing, what are some good stores youd personally recommend me shopping at? I usually don't go to clubs because my game will not work there with all the noise and all(I prefer to whisper, which is like a major part of my game) so im lookin for clothes which are more appropriate say for school, bars, etc.
3. Wear contacts or thin-framed glasses.
- Well id like to wear contacts but unfortunatelly I don't have the money for them right now. So all I can do is just work with the glasses im wearing now.
4. Get a nice silver watch. Nothing expensive but something that looks good.
- I shall look into that as well.
5. Avoid baggy clothes and jerseys. You look like you are trying too hard in those second round of photos.
- As for baggy clothes, jerseys i wear them whenever im comfortable and all. Funny thing is ive gotten more looks by ladies when ive worn baggy clothes, but i don't wear em all the time. As for trying too hard, that pose was just all in fun really.
 

smoke city

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1. Get in shape (just dropping 20 lbs can do wonders) and get some new clothes. I suggest some good quality jeans/flat front pants and some well-fitting button-down shirts (with no words or numbers, NO SILK--and in solid colors). good shoes (VERY important). Try Kenneth Cole, Banana Republic, even J Crew.
Nothing extravagant needed (these places have sales all the time)--just clean up your style.
This will get you 90% of the way to a good look.

2. Don't worry about your hair. It looks fine buzzed (actually lots of women like this look), and just make sure it's CLEAN (get a good dandruff shampoo if nec'y). Don't do gel and products and salons. leave that for the "metrosexuals." end of story.

3. Improve your attitude. Just approach women, keep it loose and relaxed, and have a good time--ALWAYS. Calming energy is very important to project. Really this is the most important. Once you get the basic style points out of the way, you should focus ALL your energy on being a happy, well-adjusted person.
 

Juan_Man

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As far as clothing stores, I would say go to your local Ross, TJ Max or Burlington Coat Factory for some good prices. I'm not sure if these stores are located in your state, but I would just go where you know where the good deals are.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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