"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your toughest critic is....yourself. It doesn't matter anyway, because all girls have different tastes in guys. You look young, so do I, but there are girls who think I am hot so who cares what the rest think. Your clothes are fine and despite what people have said, they look like they fit fine to me.... not everybody in this world is a fat-ass or macho man. I find polo shirts and white tees to be the best clothes though, and the abercrombie and ralph lauren polo shirts fit really well for skinny guys. Jeans are definitely the best thing to wear these days, the faded look is popular. As for you hair, looks fine to me, some like some don't. I am around your size, but I have kinda a small head so it looks stupid if I cut my hair really short. I always keep it at least long enough to comb and spike up if I want, but it requires monthly haircuts to keep at optimal height. Hair can make or break you, I should know. When I comb mine straight down or if I have a buzz cut, it looks HORRIBLE and doesn't go with my face, but when I spike it up with gel and mess it up a bit, it looks 500% better, no joke. You just have to find what you like best, because nothing is more important than your own confidence about yourself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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