"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rate her!
- Thread starter jammy1257
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mantis Toboggan
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You can't rate a girl's attractiveness without some strangers on the internet telling you how to think?
Also, I don't know what HB means either. I always assumed it meant Hot Body or Hot B*tch. But basically, it's the typical scale of rating someone 1 - 10. "1" being hideous and "10" being perfect.
I would be reluctant to publish photos of women here because someone might recognize her and tell her and then she'll read all your posts.
Back in 2006 when I originally joined SS my gf at the time found my account, joined SS herself and actually commented on my post! When I revealed it was her someone wrote "Keep your b*tch off the computer!".
That said, I'd give the girl pictured an HB8.
cordoncordon
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.