Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Are you kidding? Or are you trying to make an obsolete point? Oh I get it, you want to be an AW like the girl in the original post.DonJuanForever said:It's crazy because me being a black guy, most of the stuff we do to women would be considered rape, lol.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
donjuan is kidding i'm black too and sh!t women think i'm a nice guy i never got the stereotypical response to being black like oh he must be mean or not a virgin all that stuff but if i were to act like a thug i would get a lot of pvssyspeedo_meme said:Are you kidding? Or are you trying to make an obsolete point? Oh I get it, you want to be an AW like the girl in the original post.
Not to hijack this thread, but I read your "sad" post. Your attitude and outlook probably play a big role in why you're depressed.
Hey jonwon the don juan i thought about what you are saying and i agree but sometimes guys get mad and can't control themselves easily that is probably what being a dj is all about if this happened to me and really disturbed her i probably would kick the guys ass but only if it really disturbed her and she didn't want to go public with it sometimes girls do fake the funk like if it's been a week and she's laughing partying that is suspiciousjonwon said:Guys put the macho BS away on this ok.
This is not his concern and dragging this out in the open is not what this girl wants, even if it was true do you think for one second she wants some blathering Neanderthal to go and spread her life around in the form of swift comic book justice, get real.
Also consider what a few others have posted this women may be trouble, she maybe honest.
A girl I was seeing told me the same thing, turns out she still went drinking with this guy (disguised it has seeing her female friend and he was just there) the guy was a total jack ass wuss bagg and it turns out the women I was seeing was an attention seeking hot machine. She pulled the wool over my eyes but when she could not hide the fact that she was still friends with a guy who had supposedly raped her or tried it soon shows she cant be trusted, a real story no women could ever face a guy like that what ever the situation.
She maybe after attention, does she have a lot of male friends, does she flirt a lot, does she still see this guy even if it is with other friends? If it was a true rape she could not stand to be near a guy like that ever, I don’t care what anyone says.
GL to you with this one, no don’t start running around like a man jacked up on Xmen movies, actually think about it, would a normal girl want it out in the open and would a normal girl be able to see this guy again at all?
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Nope.whatdude said:What if your girl got raped, but NOT when she was your girl... say you didn't even know the girl at the time. Would you kick that guys ass who raped your girl or what?
Exactly. Exellent post.jonwon said:Guys put the macho BS away on this ok.
This is not his concern and dragging this out in the open is not what this girl wants, even if it was true do you think for one second she wants some blathering Neanderthal to go and spread her life around in the form of swift comic book justice, get real.
Also consider what a few others have posted this women may be trouble, she maybe honest.
A girl I was seeing told me the same thing, turns out she still went drinking with this guy (disguised it has seeing her female friend and he was just there) the guy was a total jack ass wuss bagg and it turns out the women I was seeing was an attention seeking hot machine. She pulled the wool over my eyes but when she could not hide the fact that she was still friends with a guy who had supposedly raped her or tried it soon shows she cant be trusted, a real story no women could ever face a guy like that what ever the situation.
She maybe after attention, does she have a lot of male friends, does she flirt a lot, does she still see this guy even if it is with other friends? If it was a true rape she could not stand to be near a guy like that ever, I don’t care what anyone says.
GL to you with this one, no don’t start running around like a man jacked up on Xmen movies, actually think about it, would a normal girl want it out in the open and would a normal girl be able to see this guy again at all?
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d9930380 said:Stackthestyles
No to everthing, it's not your business. If she is your LTR gf then things change, however otherwise you don't owe her any chivalous behaviour at all.
Girls will use nice guys to do what they can't do, don't be played.
d9930380 said:Stackthestyles
No to everthing, it's not your business. If she is your LTR gf then things change, however otherwise you don't owe her any chivalous behaviour at all.
Girls will use nice guys to do what they can't do, don't be played.
Now why would you say something like that? Do you really believe that all those who disagree with you are idiots? Listen. This universe is perfectly just. If you harm someone, it always and i mean ALWAYS comes back to you in some shape or form. Now, raping a girl is a horrible fvcking thing to do. For that, some serious justice needs to be dealt out. And i would be perfectly content, even happy, to be the one who delivers it. Defending (and if it's too late to defend, avenging) the weak is our responsibility, it's in our blood.Latinoman said:Nope.
Only an AFC or an idiot would do something like that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.