"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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RANT: wow I really need...

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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based on what you wrote, you will not succeed.

if you do somehow succeed in life the way you want to, it'll take a long time.

but thats just my opinion
 

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Crazy Asian said:
based on what you wrote, you will not succeed.

if you do somehow succeed in life the way you want to, it'll take a long time.

but thats just my opinion
wow you're optimistic
but it's better late than never

JAS760 said:
aww really why not?
and I can be sociable and all
but I need to assert
I need to motivate myself
that door is open
I need to step through
 

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well it sounds like your beginning a path of self-improvement. But I feel that you jsut realized this and are charging into it headfirst. Believe me, i had to try MANY different ways to become who i am today. I'm not who i want to be, but at least now i know i'm heading in the right direction. Most of the time it doesn't go the way you want it to. At first you'll be going in the wrong direction and you will get lazy.

So what i'm saying is that you need to find something deeper than just wanting girls or becoming more social. I could be wrong, but, it is very hard to become who you want to be. You'll do things that aren't what you imagine them to be, and steer off into another dark path.

+ that little sentence about you reading everything in the DJ bible. You can't take in that much mixed info at once. Those are opinions of many different people each with different views on life. Work on one thing at a time, and everytime you see results, that'll motivate you to greater goals.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't think you need to already have an imagination on trying new things... you either have a hope or you're neutrally not-caring like me :p
 

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Crazy Asian said:
+ that little sentence about you reading everything in the DJ bible. You can't take in that much mixed info at once. Those are opinions of many different people each with different views on life. Work on one thing at a time, and everytime you see results, that'll motivate you to greater goals.
true true
I've read alot of it
most of it
but it's hard for it to sink in
I have to keep coming back
 
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