"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rant: Vehicle Prejudice

Rubirosa

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I LOVE extreme vehicles, specifically exotic sportscars and bada$$ trucks and jeeps....
Yet I constantly read cynical comments regarding men indulging in their car passions as "compensating" or "midlife crisis mode"

Why does this prejudice exist? Is it simply misdirected jealousy because the cost of said vehicles is an indication that the vehicle owner makes a good living?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Atom Smasher

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Because women are fundamentally jealous of men. Therefore they attempt to shame you for having that which they could never attain.
 

the_stig

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Atom Smasher said:
Because women are fundamentally jealous of men. Therefore they attempt to shame you for having that which they could never attain.
Yup. Just like how fat women gang up and shame skinny women. Misdirected jealousy exactly.
 

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I think women are pissed off because the money you spend on these vehicles isn't been spent on THEM. Women hate the idea of a man treating HIMSELF and buying something that he wants.

But if you bought her that expensive car, that's fine lol.
 

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As bad an investment as cars are, they are far better and last longer than the consumer junk women would have bought with the money, explaining the negative MSM stereotypes handily.

Remember, for the MSM and its broader gov-edu-union-contractor-grantee-lawyer-MSM Complex interests, money in women's hands = good, more impressionable, easier to get money. Money in men's hands = bad. Explains so much about our culture and even our status quo law.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FairShake

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I'm usually on a mountain bike. Chicks seem to dig it. Especially when they try to ride on my handlebars.

Listen, a lot of guys get fancy cars to show off. Which is why you see so many red and black exotics and not so many gray or green or navy blue exotics. If it was all about the ride the colors wouldn't matter and would span the spectrum.

You have to know this going in to the purchase. If you truly love the car and the ride and not the talk and admiration you don't care about anyone's perception anyway right?
 

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Rubirosa said:
I LOVE extreme vehicles, specifically exotic sportscars and bada$$ trucks and jeeps....
Yet I constantly read cynical comments regarding men indulging in their car passions as "compensating" or "midlife crisis mode"

Why does this prejudice exist? Is it simply misdirected jealousy because the cost of said vehicles is an indication that the vehicle owner makes a good living?
It's 100% jealously.

I love cars because of how they work, look, sound, and perform. If you have around $25k to spend you can easily turn an old car into an absolute monster with around 900+BHP. The "look" of the car is simply the cover in my opinion. They don't have to look nice but it's really all about how YOU perceive it. What's underneath can be a mystery.

If they care about looks that much then it's simply a mix of jealousy and compensating for not being able to have "nice looking things."
 
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