"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rant: My own weak behaviour

QuadDeuces

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I am unable to Next women.
These holidays were horrible to me, because I was lying to 2 women about my wherabouts, yesterday I faked a telephone call that I was too drunk too talk after 7 missed calls whilst I was dead sober.
I have 2 girls who both think I am their boyfriend, it's tearing them up, when I disappear with weak excuses.
One girl bought me a GoPro for Christmas, the other invited me to her family for the second Christmas day family Christmas dinner, where I was sitting there talking to her mother, dad and brother.
The more I disappear, the more they become needy and try to buy me stuff.
I had to mute one girl when I am with the other and vice versa.

This year I need to make changes and be more clear and have stricter boundaries and tell women I don't want relationships.
But these women latch on to me like crazy and start investing and investing and I am too weak to "break up" with one of them for no apparent reason.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sosousage

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I am unable to Next women.
These holidays were horrible to me, because I was lying to 2 women about my wherabouts, yesterday I faked a telephone call that I was too drunk too talk after 7 missed calls whilst I was dead sober.
I have 2 girls who both think I am their boyfriend, it's tearing them up, when I disappear with weak excuses.
One girl bought me a GoPro for Christmas, the other invited me to her family for the second Christmas day family Christmas dinner, where I was sitting there talking to her mother, dad and brother.
The more I disappear, the more they become needy and try to buy me stuff.
I had to mute one girl when I am with the other and vice versa.

This year I need to make changes and be more clear and have stricter boundaries and tell women I don't want relationships.
But these women latch on to me like crazy and start investing and investing and I am too weak to "break up" with one of them for no apparent reason.
just enjoy the free gopro and other stuff
 
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