"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rant: My own weak behaviour

QuadDeuces

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I am unable to Next women.
These holidays were horrible to me, because I was lying to 2 women about my wherabouts, yesterday I faked a telephone call that I was too drunk too talk after 7 missed calls whilst I was dead sober.
I have 2 girls who both think I am their boyfriend, it's tearing them up, when I disappear with weak excuses.
One girl bought me a GoPro for Christmas, the other invited me to her family for the second Christmas day family Christmas dinner, where I was sitting there talking to her mother, dad and brother.
The more I disappear, the more they become needy and try to buy me stuff.
I had to mute one girl when I am with the other and vice versa.

This year I need to make changes and be more clear and have stricter boundaries and tell women I don't want relationships.
But these women latch on to me like crazy and start investing and investing and I am too weak to "break up" with one of them for no apparent reason.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sosousage

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I am unable to Next women.
These holidays were horrible to me, because I was lying to 2 women about my wherabouts, yesterday I faked a telephone call that I was too drunk too talk after 7 missed calls whilst I was dead sober.
I have 2 girls who both think I am their boyfriend, it's tearing them up, when I disappear with weak excuses.
One girl bought me a GoPro for Christmas, the other invited me to her family for the second Christmas day family Christmas dinner, where I was sitting there talking to her mother, dad and brother.
The more I disappear, the more they become needy and try to buy me stuff.
I had to mute one girl when I am with the other and vice versa.

This year I need to make changes and be more clear and have stricter boundaries and tell women I don't want relationships.
But these women latch on to me like crazy and start investing and investing and I am too weak to "break up" with one of them for no apparent reason.
just enjoy the free gopro and other stuff
 
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