"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Viking25

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Only fat girls smile at me or give me EC...but they are not my type. To think about,I was always chasing girls,convience them to go out with me on dates...it's always been hard work.Yeah I could get dates and their time,but it never lead to anything at all. I am so tired of it and I just can't figure it out.
Perhaps I do appear as desperate,but I have also tried to date girls I have no attraction too...it's all the same,after a date they don't call me if I don't call them.
I am lucky to find this board,but that's where I am right now..just trying to learn basics and figure things out in the future.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DOnt feel bad man, the same thing happen to me. I always have to do everything and they never call me back after the date, am always the one calling!
 
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lol. still goin' with this thread eh? yeah, same as i said before. fuk the girls off that don't put any effort. dumb fuks. i was enjoying the other day at the bus station, heh heh. i did nothing to make the girl join me at the seat. now she's always flickin my head or some crap just to get attention. it's my turn to be a b|tch!
i love giving girls a b|tching. the ones that are b|tches themselves of course. i never tease the really nice gals. kind, mature, caring, all the nice stuff. i respect them, since they're not around as much as wh0res. i like to admire their beauty and at the same time their personality and kindness. THAT! is a woman.

as for the wh0res and b|tches? i will treat them like one. they chose to be it, not me! and it feels good, it kinda makes up for all the times those girls dumped your @ss or ignored you.

don't give up though viking. a nice girl will come along and you won't even know it. happened to me once. i was single and by the time i knew it, this beautiful nice church girl was falling in love with me as was i falling for her. all happened unexpected. it always happens. your turn will come.
 
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