Ranking First Date Ideas

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

So my grading factors measure off of money spent(the less the better), time investment(the less the better), and convenience! My goal on the first date is to have a quick sniff test of the girl.


Movies: F tier… pretty self explanatory

Walk in the park: C tier….This one varies depending on your location. I gave it a C because it is free, but the convenience and timing can be terrible unless you live in a walkable dense city with halfway decent weather like NYC. I am in Houston, so the few parks available are always crowded with limited parking and the weather can be pretty unforgiving most of the year.

Restaurant: B tier…. If you know what you are doing and abstain from drinking then you can easily find a restaurant that suits a budget. The biggest issue is that these dates can drag on too long sometimes and give you more time to screw up. However, If perfectly executed, you can go for sex on the first night.

Bar: A or B tier….The only con is that it can be costly and also lead to alcohol induced accidents. In addition, if you are aiming for sex on this first night, this is your best option.

Coffee/Snack Date: A tier… This is the perfect sniff test date for someone looking for a relationship. It is inexpensive, saves time, and overall convenient. However, if you are going through a dry spell then you can easily screw this one up lol.

Any dumb two way adventure date: F tier… I personally hate adventure dates because you are investing a lot of time, money, or both on a woman you haven’t even met yet. You don’t know who this girl is and you are driving across town to take her mini golfing, painting class,Concert, and then end with ice cream for her just to ghost you afterwards. Next, she will update her bio to reflect her new first date standards. If you can only raise a girls interest by the type of dates you plan for her, you are a SIMP!

Shopping Center: A tier…Pretty flexible, opens the date to other options if it is going well. Pretty underrated imho.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Pretty good run down.

I would put Bar higher than coffee. Bar as A, Coffee possibly A-. They accomplish mostly the same thing however the bar first date has a few notable advantages:

-superior ambiance : the setting will be dimmer and you can sit closer. Better for attraction and seduction. Coffee date can drift more into feeling like an informal interview

-Kino / kissing : I’m not a big advocate for initiating kino but the close proximity in a bar along with the dim lighting it is more conducive to touching and making out. No one’s tonguing each other down at a cafe

-Proximity : bar dates are usually located close to other bars. One date can easily turn into hitting up 3 different bars

 

[Doctor Europeo]

A+ tier: Whatever you were going to do anyway and you invite her along for the ride.