"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Average, I knew what you meant by dialect. Dialect and accent can be used interchangably.

If southern accents makes you think of an uneducated person, you need to go down to Atlanta and meet some women. You could probably stand to learn something from them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm talking the southern belle accent. And if you think southern automatically means uneducated, you're an idiot to begin with.
I live in the north and south. I know people in both regions arent idiots. I'm saying the southern belle accent is like nails on a chalkboard to me.
 

Lost

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Originally posted by AverageFC
Actually I hate the southern accent, especially on women. To me it gives the insinuation of "uneducated". *shudder* She could be mad fine and then start talking with a southern accent and I'd go limp.
same
 

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I prefer an upper or middle-class urban British accent myself. But accent is not high up on my list of important matters.
 

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I love eastern European accents... I swear to god I'm gonna marry a Russian Babula.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the NUMBER ONE turn-on factor for me are english-indian mixed chicks in a business attire with an upper-class english accent. I would give my left nut to hook up with one of those.
 

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i got the same reaction to southern accent as some people here. when i hear it i always assume the person just crawled from under a trailer. i know its not always the case, but being raised in NE conditioned me to think so.
 

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Originally posted by Red Tiger
you obviously haven't heard of the english estuary accent - hideous
Hell, at least you can understand those people. Try listening to young Welsh kids who speak Welsh at home and in school. It's less understandable than muttered gibberish (which is, of course, exactly what Welsh is;))

And the Southern drwal "uneducated"?! Mark Twain? Abraham Lincoln, anyone? (It gives an odd kind of force to some kinds of speech, ie., "Well, I have two guns: one for each of ya.")
 

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"nekkid"

Gotta love the southern use of the word: you're "naked" if you just have no clothes on and "nekkid" if youi have no clothes on and you're up to something.
 

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Im in Pittsburgh where we have a pretty serious accent/dialect some examples...

steel=still

iron=arn

yinze( Yin-zz)=made up word for a group of people or a verson of Ya'll

Ex. What do yinze want to do tonight?

Gumbands=rubberbands

chipped ham= very thinly sliced deli ham

Dahn-tahn= down town

An-At(short for "and this and that")

Ex. We went out and drank and partyed An-At.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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