Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I guess I am nobody then. I love hockey. Go Blues!!!! (who never win lol)FairShake said:
The east is tough. Good luck with that. I cant see the Rangers beating the Isles in a series when they meet (and Im sure theyll meet in the playoffs). The Islanders have choked away the last 2 games against the Rangers, but remember, this is a young and hungry team that likely wants revenge.JustinBustin said:
I dont watch much hockey, and its pretty down on my list of fave sports, but I cannot deny that it has a following. Because the Islanders have finally been competitive the last few years, and because they are in their last year before moving to a new location, Ive become a bit more interested.FairShake said: