Randomness.

[Maeisgood]

I have not posted in a while because it seems my presence angers people, so I won't post as much. Here are some questions that cannot be answered by people I know:

1) What does it mean when a chick punches/kicks you in the butt everyday at school and talks?

2) What does it mean if she asks you to prom?

3) Why is it that when you try to get over a girl by doing stuff with other ones, the one that refuses to leave your mind simply never leaves. Its like she is the standard by which all of the others are measured and none measure up. Beauty is everywhere, but good personalities are rare and personality is most important.

4) How do you get a girl to "miss" you? This is said to be important. Its seems hard when you see them everyday at school.

5) How do you be unique, exciting, and not-boring without being considered "werid"? Being different without being werid seems difficult. Most guys are boring and girls often complain of that.

6)The strange thing is that two of my best friends, people who I would consider AFC's have girlfriends, but I do things to girls like "bust their balls," go on amazing adventures to places no one else goes that are exciting, use C & F, and that sort of thing, yet they do better than me.

7) What are some things that cause break-ups?

These are my questions, I haven't posted in two weeks or so. I won't start a new one for a while.

 

[Maeisgood]

Thanks for helping me.

1. I always make a point to make her say "ouch" when she does this. I ignore her yet she keeps coming.

2. So she asked me because she was desperate to have someone to go with?

4. To get her to "miss" me I need to walk a different way in school between periods? What about with other girls in the future?


Some more information about this situation:

I'm going to prom with the best friend of the girl I went with last year. Let's call the girl I went to prom with last year Lauren. Lauren asked me to prom and I meant to ask her out but I waited too long and she got a boyfriend from another county. When we hang out, her friend (she will be called Jillian) Lauren would joke about me liking Jillian. Since Lauren is taken, I decided to ask Jillian. With a swift kick in my rear (which I returned) she said I should go to prom with Jillian.

So this prom, Lauren, her boyfriend, Jillian and I will be eating together (in Lauren's house again). This will be awkward. Any suggestions or comments about this story?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by Maeisgood
I have not posted in a while because it seems my presence angers people, so I won't post as much. Here are some questions that cannot be answered by people I know:
Your presence doesnt anger us, when you bombarded us with silly questions that irritated us
1) What does it mean when a chick punches/kicks you in the butt everyday at school and talks?
This means she likes you, or likes to flirt with you....to escalate try ticlkling/play-fighting with her and gettin close n personal n make a move
2) What does it mean if she asks you to prom?
It means she likes you, or you are her gal pal and she went with you because she knew you'd say yes
3) Why is it that when you try to get over a girl by doing stuff with other ones, the one that refuses to leave your mind simply never leaves. Its like she is the standard by which all of the others are measured and none measure up. Beauty is everywhere, but good personalities are rare and personality is most important.
No...her personality isn't that great. I bet you I know a girl who is the exact same or better personality and if you weren't blinded by "love" you'd see it too.. Love blinds all...
4) How do you get a girl to "miss" you? This is said to be important. Its seems hard when you see them everyday at school.
You don't...You move on to new girls and forget about her. If you find out later her feelings for you have been ignited from jealousy, then it is your choice, but when you move on, that shouldn't be in the back of your mind. You have to actually move on.
5) How do you be unique, exciting, and not-boring without being considered "werid"? Being different without being werid seems difficult. Most guys are boring and girls often complain of that.
Don't talk too much and always relate to what they have to say. Make the most mundane things sound interesting
6)The strange thing is that two of my best friends, people who I would consider AFC's have girlfriends, but I do things to girls like "bust their balls," go on amazing adventures to places no one else goes that are exciting, use C & F, and that sort of thing, yet they do better than me.
Tis luck...things will change if you stay at it...They more than likely will not marry these girls and when they get back into the field, they'll be light years behind you. Or they might probably end up in an AFC marriage which is the worse case scenario
7) What are some things that cause break-ups?
Lost interest, cheating, loss of trust, it varies
These are my questions, I haven't posted in two weeks or so. I won't start a new one for a while.

Coo man, don't take the thrashing I gave you personally last time, I was just tired of the threads with 1 question, this was a much better post about relevant things. As for the girl situation, the movie Swingers put it best

On the girl you want but can't have

Mike: Okay, so what if I don't want to give up on her?
Rob: You don't call.
Mike: But you said I don't call if I wanted to give up on her.
Rob: Right.
Mike: So I don't call either way?
Rob: Right.
Mike: So what's the difference?
Rob: There is no difference right now. See, Mike, the only difference between giving up and not giving up is if you take her back when she wants to come back. But you can't do anything to make her want to come back. In fact, you can only do stuff to make her not want to come back.
Mike: So the only difference is if I forget about her or just pretend to forget about her?
Rob: Right.
Mike: Well that sucks.
Rob: Yeah, it sucks.
Mike: So it's just like a retroactive decision, then? I mean I could, like, forget about her and then when she comes back make like I just pretended to forget about her?
Rob: Right. Although probably more likely the opposite.
Mike: What do you mean?
Rob: I mean at first you're going to pretend to forget about her, you'll not call her, I don't know, whatever... but then eventually, you really will forget about her.
Mike: Well what if she comes back first?
Rob: Mmmm... see, that's the thing, is somehow they know not to come back until you really forget.
Mike: There's the rub.
Rob: There's the rub.

As for dating the friend of the girl you like it is a double edged sword if there ever was one. On one side if she likes you, she will get jealous and might change her mind.....on the other hand, if she really likes this guy (or even thinks you might just be doing this to get back at her; it is the oldest trick in the book) then things could get ugly. Trying to get over her will be MUCH harder if you are witness to those two being lovey-dovey and kissing around you. Plus if you don't even really have feelings for Jillian then you are just leading her on too, and you gonna look like a dog. Good luck Mae

 

[Maeisgood]

Thanks for the help. I was talking to another chick this week and just like a woman, she opened her mouth and let too much information out. I learned from her that the girl I really liked used me. One huge advantage we (or is it "us" guys) have is that girls let too much information known. It is better to hold information in instead of spouting it off like girls do. The girl I liked was going out with another guy from another school, and then they broke up. Prom came, and she asked me to go even though I barely even talked to her. I was thinking of asking someone else. Then I asked her to homecoming but she already had a date. She later said she regretted not going with me and that I was more exciting and that she loved me but not "romantically." Then she went out with the other guy she broke up with earlier. Ah, High School.

I used to worry about whether or not I was "popular" or not but it doesn't matter anymore. Despite what people think, High School doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. I'm not "unpopular," I was a homecoming prince and I'm a prom nominee (the election hasnt happened yet). I'm well-liked I think, I just don't like anyone else anymore. The pissiness of women has disenchanted me with them. They are over-emotional, pissy, catty, insecure, and VERY Machivellian in everything they do.

Girls are *****es, and I think I wanna become a homo now because of it. Anyone wanna start a new forum with me?

 

[Maeisgood]

By the way, the girl who punches me in the butt everyday is "Lauren," the one who I liked and now hope that she suffers a long, painful, scary, and lonely death.

 

[familyguyfan]

Why should it be awkward? It's not like you don't talk to Lauren anymore.

Why do you hate her?

 

[Maeisgood]

Other girls have admitted that she played with my head. That's just plain wrong. She totes herself as being a good, moral, upstanding Christian and stuff. I like girls who are clean and pretty and stuff. She seemed to be just "my type." But I obviously wasn't hers. They are very few and precious. And then she does a thing like that to me. I'm sure doing that is some kind of sin.

Prom will be very interesting this year. I'm going with her best friend who is similar to her, but can be rather irritable at times. Pimps can get all the women they want, but can they diffuse emotional time bombs?

 

[Void]

Wow, I am proud of you. Finally, a worthwhile post to read by you.


1) What does it mean when a chick punches/kicks you in the butt everyday at school and talks?

It means she sees you as a friend or a man *****.

2) What does it mean if she asks you to prom?

She's interested in you...

3) Why is it that when you try to get over a girl by doing stuff with other ones, the one that refuses to leave your mind simply never leaves. Its like she is the standard by which all of the others are measured and none measure up. Beauty is everywhere, but good personalities are rare and personality is most important.

Why not ask "What is the meaning of life?" too?
Well IMO, find other girls that good personalities and are pretty. Try to make it so you don't have as much time to focus on her.

4) How do you get a girl to "miss" you? This is said to be important. Its seems hard when you see them everyday at school.

Every time you see her be HAPPY. Act upbeat, charming and happy. When the conversation with her dies, immediately say bye and leave.

5) How do you be unique, exciting, and not-boring without being considered "werid"? Being different without being werid seems difficult. Most guys are boring and girls often complain of that.

Well...always have something going on in your life man.

6)The strange thing is that two of my best friends, people who I would consider AFC's have girlfriends, but I do things to girls like "bust their balls," go on amazing adventures to places no one else goes that are exciting, use C & F, and that sort of thing, yet they do better than me.

I do not know enough about you to judge you. Neither should anyone else. But one thing I CAN TELL by your posts is that you over analyze.

7) What are some things that cause break-ups?

If everything is the same everyday. Nothing exciting or new happening...Nowhere to go in a relationship next...Not being on high demand because you are always free. Giving her presents too early...breaking the 20 minute rule...

Of course these are rules and rules are meant to be broken. You cannot always rely on something to always work. These are just here to teach you some basic things...In the end it doesn't really matter.

 

[Maeisgood]

I changed everything about my school day to avoid Lauren and I don't hang out with her unless everyone's gone that night. Its hard to hang out with Jillian without Lauren being there.

Addendum of Randomness:

1) I'm wearing a kilt to prom. My parents said I should ask Jillian first. That seems unmanly and wussy to seek the approval of a woman. But I also don't want to piss her off. Lauren was much cooler and would like it, but Jillian is pissy. What do you all think I should do?

2) How does a DJ handle the conversation when the subject becomes solemn or serious? I know "being a man" is important, but if you are normally cheerful and stuff and the conversation becomes sad, that seems like a huge turn-off. I'm no goth, but life isn't always pleasant.

 

[wavejams007]

About the kilt thing... Yu have ta have some confidence to do that , and You might make your date uncomfortable, but it is decently original. Kind of like a Pink tux idea.
Second, I am a pretty well-rounded person, but I have a huge sense of humor, but I am not all happy-go-lucky. I am really upbeat most of the time on the outside at least. When serious things are brought up, I talk about them, but try to be profound, yet a littl mystifying, and not pessimist or sad. Just my opinion, but girls like guys that aren't completely superficial, but aren't overboard serious ass well. I am also a pretty random, very instantaneous guy, U should try thta as well. Glad that this post Maeis good is more objective than the last.

 

[Maeisgood]

1) So should I ask her first?

2) Can talking about weighty issues every now and then be considered "manly" and "mature" and stuff if they are not frequent?

3) Now, this next bit is truly random, but I think it will prove helpful to all of us in every facet of our lives. Women spout out gossip, and we can use that to help us. To keep from seeming too eager about the statuses of the relationships of others, is there a way to find out without asking directly? In Hamlet, Polonius tells his son to "fish for truth with lies." Can this work and are there ways of gaining information without asking for it directly?

Before people get mad, I want to elaborate on how this will help. When competing with people, whether it's war or sports or whatever, its good to know about what you're up against. Asking someone directly is like having your spies and scouts found out about and then people will know what you are up to. Surprise and stealth is useful in the intrigues of high school. If someone is able to help me, I'll have half of the work done for me I think.

4) How are some ways you all have turned prom dates into girlfriends? If I was wise, I would have done that last year.

 

[Maeisgood]

C'mon you all, I need your help. My brother is gone and I can't talk to him anymore. I need to figure out how to gain information without asking for it directly. There is a way but I'm not sure how to do it.