Randomly ran in my hb9 old oneitis - Kept frame like a boss

[TheGambino]

Went out and bump there she is again randomly after a month of NC.

She sees me, passes me, smiles and rubbs my face sweetly, kinda happy to see me.

I smiled back.

The whole night she was checking me out, dancing in front of me, grinding her neece and looking if she got any reaction out of me. Didn't glance, look or give her any attention all night after my smile. Not even a stare or a look. NOTHING.

Eventually she talked to my buddy (she knows him very vague) and tried to get my attention a bit more. (probably just to see if im still hooked)

She is sure interested in me, like maybe not cexually anymore or as a lover but as a person in general.

At a certain point it spooked, lets just play with her hair when she passes and smile, push her too me and try to isolate her for make out. But nahh, I thought about all of you guys and especially @classguy and ignored her and talked to other girls.

Anyway, kept my frame.

 

[switch7]

If you want frame in this forum, you would do better to not mention her anymore.

 

[Desdinova]

She sees me, passes me, smiles and rubbs my face sweetly, kinda happy to see me.

I smiled back.

Running into an ex you were madly in love with can really test your ability to hold your 5hit together. I always have a plan for when I DO run into them. The main thing I do is approach her, greet her, be positive, make small talk, initiate kino, and then end the conversation so you can go back to the other people you're with. Never say goodbye when you're leaving the location.

This is how you turn the table on her. You maintain control of the interaction and the conversation. You're the one who makes it happen and ends it. You do it on YOUR terms. It catches them off guard, and it makes them think about you. NEVER TAKE THEM BACK. EVER. She fvcked it up, now she has to suffer watching you interact with other women.