Random thought about Girls with BF's

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Testiculz

Don Juan

Jun 19, 2006

JezDuffield said:
You are calling me a PU-SSY because I would not CONGRATULATE some WAN-KER who stole my girlfriend off me, come on, who are you KIDDING, take my girlfriend and you PAY a VERY HIGH PRICE I'm affraid, I don't know where your mind set is at, I fight for what I want and I don't just sit around and let other guys take things off me without putting up a fight, you are the WIMP not me, I fight to keep what I think I should have. :yes:

when your game is strong, you dont even have time to fight.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.