random sarge turns into a onitis..

[KneghtRyder]

this is my problem..i had a short convo, didn't develop enough rapport, and asked for an email. but didn't get it..bc well i wasn't dressed well and/or didnt' develope enough rapport but i think there was some interest in her ..before askin for a number basically i want to met her another time before class and ask for the number..because i know her class time and everything..will talking to her again raise her interest
i see this chick walkin my way to class. so i m like alright no IOI but who cares...i run up, open with a big smile , hi whats ur name ? ...shes gives me a big southern bell smile..hot ass italian chick i get one look at her face and i m feeling her..

so basically the conversation goes like this...

(shes got a book in her hand)
me: i see ur taking phsyology...hows that going ?
her: blabh ..blahb
me: do u goto here or just for the summer ?
her: just for the summer, i goto uv
me: really thats a good school, how do u like it there ?
her: its alirght..blah blah
me: I heard the weather really sucks.
her: no , no only in the winter
( then i m like i better start game on her, bc ive got nothing to say so i make **** up)
me: thast cool , two of my close friends go there, they love it. its ranked top in math and science etc..
( then suddently her class, it came too soon for me to do anything, comes up and she stops, I am at a loss of what to do, we're standing in front of her class, i want to ask her is this ur class.. i want to ask let me walk you back to your car when u get done but ...we've only had this short convo)
me: do you have an email ?
her: says something i dont understand but she doesn't give me her number

like, i didn't get to chat with her enough bc her class came up and I didn't want to make the mistake of asking for her number too soon w/o developing rapport so I thought I would dropp it and met her before class again.

Yo. this girl is hot ... i definetly going to make it a point to talk to her again and definetly dress better and get the number.

i felt crappy the whole day after i failed this ...

 

[Microphone Fiend]

I think you need more plates spinning so you dont fall so quickly over some random chick just because she is hot...

 

[Docs]

....what the fvck?

That's what I got from reading that, and that's being honest. There was absolutely no reason (ie: RAPPORT) for her to give you her email.

Lets not even touch the concept of all you did was ask questions (ie: NO GAME), no name, no age, no details, no laughter, nothing.

Mmm..

 

[KneghtRyder]

....what the fvck?

That's what I got from reading that, and that's being honest. There was absolutely no reason (ie: RAPPORT) for her to give you her email.

Lets not even touch the concept of all you did was ask questions (ie: NO GAME), no name, no age, no details, no laughter, nothing.

Mmm..

honesty is appreciated.

She's got the looks i go for.

I've been thinking back and forth since yesterday... i think i can do it.. if i hit it with her it'll be worth all this sosuave sargin for the past 2 months and getting good looking chicks. ONE Great looking chick would be worth all this trouble -- world class looks is the only way to describe.

.. i hope by dressing better and talking to her again w/ some personality or being a chameleon...hopefully she'll see that i am a successful and very cool guy...and want to have a relationship with me.. its my hope that by talking to me once or twice more where we have rapport or good communication or try to sync, she'll give me that chance or number...

once i get the number and date, i feel confident that i can game her into a relationship but thats just me.

 

[Docs]

I've been thinking back and forth since yesterday... i think i can do it.. if i hit it with her it'll be worth all this sosuave sargin for the past 2 months and getting good looking chicks. ONE Great looking chick would be worth all this trouble -- world class looks is the only way to describe.

i hope by dressing better and talking to her again w/ some personality or being a chameleon...hopefully she'll see that i am a successful and very cool guy...and want to have a relationship with me.. its my hope that by talking to me once or twice more where we have rapport or good communication or try to sync, she'll give me that chance or number...

once i get the number and date, i feel confident that i can game her into a relationship but thats just me.

I'm a successful guy that always dresses in a tshirt and jeans. You'd be lucky to catch me with gel in my hair, or colonge. It's not my success that attracts girls, because it doesn't show. Rather, it's how I talk to them. I tend to have the happy aura around me, and I won't hesitate to kino and flirt.

The thing is, from what I saw from your original approach, I hope you were having a really bad day and fell down the stairs or something, because there really wasn't anything to work with.

 

[KneghtRyder]

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Lets not even touch the concept of all you did was ask questions (ie: NO GAME), no name, no age, no details, no laughter, nothing.

Mmm..

i was hoping you can suggest some better way of convo to entice her into giving her number...

my convo was boring and dull, yes..but under the circumstances, i see no other way of talking to her than this in that short time frame

 

[PRMoon]

Don't stress about it. If you see her again, come at her with something else besides school. Get a feel for her a bit with some probing questions and go from there. You were just nervous so you didn't play your game the right way.

 

[Docs]

i was hoping you can suggest some better way of convo to entice her into giving her number...

my convo was boring and dull, yes..but under the circumstances, i see no other way of talking to her than this in that short time frame

You can never entice anyone into doing something (so, no forced against the locker deal here..). What you can though, is try to start a conversation (not question and one-word answer) about a topic. ask her how her day went, and branch off from there....

How will you get a number? You might never get it. What you can do is learn to hold a conversation for a few minutes, and make her laugh. That tends to increase the chances too :woo: