"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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search1ng

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Hey, this isn't a serious discussion or anything but how would you guys answer this question?


Are you going to wait till you're married to have sex?
it was asked by a girl I've been talking to.

Anyway, at the time i was just kind of like '.... uh .... you going to ask me how long my penis is next?' But there must be something smarter out there. I don't usually give a crap about these kind of answers but this question kind of had me stumped and conversation lapsed pretty quickly afterward.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MisterMcGee

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A girl once randomly asked me "do you smoke?"
I disregarded it and kept talking about what I was talking about.
A week later she pulled the same question.
I told her I don't.
She does, however. She was worried I'd think it's nasty.
 
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search1ng said:
Hey, this isn't a serious discussion or anything but how would you guys answer this question?


Are you going to wait till you're married to have sex?
it was asked by a girl I've been talking to.

Anyway, at the time i was just kind of like '.... uh .... you going to ask me how long my penis is next?' But there must be something smarter out there. I don't usually give a crap about these kind of answers but this question kind of had me stumped and conversation lapsed pretty quickly afterward.
This is what my friends and I call idle/bullsh*t conversation. Women do this usually when they are testing you (to see if you have the balls to check her) or when they are bored. You handled it the right way. I would've probably asked if she'd been drinking or given her "The Roc's" eyebrow:

http://www.ic.sunysb.edu/Stu/wvecere/eyebrow.jpg
 
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