"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Random questions

S

search1ng

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
546
Reaction score
8
Hey, this isn't a serious discussion or anything but how would you guys answer this question?


Are you going to wait till you're married to have sex?
it was asked by a girl I've been talking to.

Anyway, at the time i was just kind of like '.... uh .... you going to ask me how long my penis is next?' But there must be something smarter out there. I don't usually give a crap about these kind of answers but this question kind of had me stumped and conversation lapsed pretty quickly afterward.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

M

MisterMcGee

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2008
Messages
825
Reaction score
18
A girl once randomly asked me "do you smoke?"
I disregarded it and kept talking about what I was talking about.
A week later she pulled the same question.
I told her I don't.
She does, however. She was worried I'd think it's nasty.
 
Y

Your_Royal_Flyness

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2009
Messages
163
Reaction score
6
Location
New York
search1ng said:
Hey, this isn't a serious discussion or anything but how would you guys answer this question?


Are you going to wait till you're married to have sex?
it was asked by a girl I've been talking to.

Anyway, at the time i was just kind of like '.... uh .... you going to ask me how long my penis is next?' But there must be something smarter out there. I don't usually give a crap about these kind of answers but this question kind of had me stumped and conversation lapsed pretty quickly afterward.
Click to expand...
This is what my friends and I call idle/bullsh*t conversation. Women do this usually when they are testing you (to see if you have the balls to check her) or when they are bored. You handled it the right way. I would've probably asked if she'd been drinking or given her "The Roc's" eyebrow:

http://www.ic.sunysb.edu/Stu/wvecere/eyebrow.jpg
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top