Random Q: Possible fclose or don't waste my time?

[j8snx1]

Hahahaha just thinking about this question makes me squirm, but here's my AFC question of the day.

I have a close female friend, and she's got a boyfriend. I apply my DJ stuff on her a lot; C&F, kino, using compliments sparingly, etc. But we're just friends @ this point, and I can clearly see that. Nevertheless, I think she can be a great wing if I take her out one day. Anyway, she's a HB8.5 and she has guys' heads turning everywhere she goes. When I notice those things when I chill with her @ school it makes me laugh since majority of them don't have the balls to go up to her and say something effectively. We've been friends for 2 years, and I COULD'VE had her if I knew about this DJ stuff earlier. Too bad she got a taste of my AFC side before she met her BF.

:crackup: I feel funny when I ask this, but is there any opportunity/chance for me to pull off a fclose on her?

 

[Damian]

Well, there's always the classic "neglect test" you can do to try to coax this woman from the LJBF zone. For a week, spend a normal amount of time with her, but make it uber-fun and exciting. Make her laugh and always be smooth. Afterwards, turn a bit of a cold-shoulder. If she reinitiates, let HER establish rapport for you, then see if you can break the friend zone.

-Damian

 

[DonJuanMonk]

I have a close female friend, and she's got a boyfriend.

This is the part where you're supposed to be a man and walk away or keep her as a friend, but then again I read some more of your moronic s-hit.

I apply my DJ stuff on her a lot; C&F, kino, using compliments sparingly, etc. But we're just friends @ this point, and I can clearly see that. Nevertheless, I think she can be a great wing if I take her out one day.

You're smart to realize she could be used as social proof, but yet you believe that using tactics will change her attraction from her bf to you. That's where your smart becomes stupid.

Anyway, she's a HB8.5 and she has guys' heads turning everywhere she goes. When I notice those things when I chill with her @ school it makes me laugh since majority of them don't have the balls to go up to her and say something effectively.

Ironic.

We've been friends for 2 years, and I COULD'VE had her if I knew about this DJ stuff earlier. Too bad she got a taste of my AFC side before she met her BF.

It doesn't matter if you are AFC or DJ. The real truth to dating is very simple: attraction. She was never attracted to you in the first place. Respect the girl and stop being pathetic.

And another thing: I despise guys who masquerade as "friends" to a girl. Believe it or not, girls pick up on this crap very early on to know whether the guy likes them or not. If the feeling isn't mutual the girl will either hint, directly tell you, or her body language will reflect you're just a friend to her. Continuing the path of "being her friend" wastes your time and your energy in hopes of getting into a relationship.

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