"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tips:

The biggest one is to reiterate that school comes first!

But another thing, do not backstab, it pisses girls off, even if they participate, stand up for the underdog (this is a British thing anyway). backstabbing is horrible, remember if you can't say something nice dont say anything at all.

Another thing, this m8 i was chattin to today kept harpin on about her bf (i got bored so left but heard interestin **** first)

She hates the fact that her bf is so wrapped round his mothers finger and is all like textin her when he gets places. One thing was he said he was glad he got there early to pick her up, because he didnt want her waitin all alone in the dark. Show respect to your mum, but do not be a little puppy FOR ANYONE.

She also associated his slobbish family with him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dont let one-itis control you. If the girl moved on, and you're tryin to figure out why, just stop and forget her. if she comes back to you.....make her earn your respect again. One itis used to control me and I still "feel" it sometimes if i fvck up with a girl. just let it go, how many people do you know that married there high school sweetheart? probably in 1 in every 100 guys do this and there idiots cuz after high school they miss the best part of their life....partying.. I used to let one itis control me..like I said I still feel it sometimes but you jus gotta GET OVER IT. your life intentions are more important than one girl.

just my 2 cents.
 

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I am glad one of these came up. I notice that many of the tips here dont really apply to high school, as high school girls are so different. We need a post on how to understand high school girls.
 

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score lots of touchdowns. wear that jacket with the letter on it.

those two tips are priceless. american high school girls have no sense of style. so they don't need a guy with money to buy them anything. they wear flip-flops everywhere. so, the currency in high school is football.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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agree with school first, no chicks likes to date a dumbass.
 
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Zerotwoonenine said:
agree with school first, no chicks likes to date a dumbass.
Ok that's why the alpha male the "dumbass football jock" gets laid with all the hot cheerleaders right... lol That's studying for the wrong reasons you study so you have options when you graduate. So just do it for yourself same with self-improvement your not doing it for "SOMEONE ELSE" your doing it for YOURSELF.

One thing I learned in highschool is do what you want and never allow others to define you. That's why I hate labels like "jock, nerd, loner and prep" it's so ignorant. That's why do what you want and don't give a sh*t what other people are saying cuz they're usually jealous of you and want to see you fail so they can feel good about themselves. The sad truth is even if your "popular" after highschool noone is gonna give a f*ck, and most of your "friends" will leave you. I always thought that it's better to have a few or couple good friends that actually help you become a better person and help you out when you need them rather than being "popular" with 200 strangers.
 

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Ace of Spades said:
If you run out of stuff to talk about, start talking about music. But make sure that your music is interesting enough to talk about. So basically, don't bring it up if you listen to mainstream crap like Linkin Park and Nelly, b/c......you shouldn't be listening to it in the first place.
avenged sevenfold is signed to warner brothers

thrice is signed to island records

anti-flag is signed to RCA

that's mainstream, buddy

i swear you music elitist a$$holes pretend you're so counterculture and unconforming, when all your subculture does is trade in one conformity for another..and you're probably not even seriously involved in a scene--just some kid who watched a video on MTV and then decided he was a rebel

and all those bands you listed are trendy and suck, except for ST
 

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tr0ublemaker said:
avenged sevenfold is signed to warner brothers

thrice is signed to island records

anti-flag is signed to RCA

that's mainstream, buddy

i swear you music elitist a$$holes pretend you're so counterculture and unconforming, when all your subculture does is trade in one conformity for another..and you're probably not even seriously involved in a scene--just some kid who watched a video on MTV and then decided he was a rebel

and all those bands you listed are trendy and suck, except for ST
THANK YOU!!! i used to be a retard who thought that. the only real "non-mainstream" or "undeground" is ppl who are out there making their money independently
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Microphone Fiend said:
"Could she have this convo with her girlfriends, or is this guy related?" Then get more rapport by asking yourself "Could she talk to any guy about this, or just me?"
i have that problem.. can someone help me with that? examples?
 
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