"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Random hookup and Paris

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I went on a school trip to Paris and one night a few of us were drunk and me and another girl hooked up. She says I put scars on her lip from making out but i doubt it. She got into our mini clique on the trip and now she doesn't really like me. Any way to not burn bridges and say something over myspace to get friends with her. Mainly because shes a cheerleader at a rival school and has hot friends.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any chick that is a friend is a gateway to more pvssy

I think thats what ur asking anyway that piece of advice should help you make desicions on female friends
 

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sorry i was jetlagged when i typed it and tired as hell, im asking how i should respond to fix our relationship since she dislikes me pretty much right now
 

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Well, jesus it's quite hard to give advice when people screw up like this, don't do it in the first place. As it says in many places but not in question like this treat her like an old friend and apologies as you would to and old friend, when you screw up something like this your probably not gonna get a hook up or anything from this girl anymore best choice you have is probably is make friends with her, stop her from hating you or she could c0ckblock you or something that you don't want just apologies make it up, you've got nothing to lose that you haven't already lost
 
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