"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Random Halloween Party Pix

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Here's a couple of random pictures from last night, in no particular order. Enjoy.

The devil made me do it...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/dv.jpg

Ever seen a green fairy (no, not absinthe)...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/grnfr.jpg

Cat got your tongue?
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/sch.jpg

Holly's outfit:
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/hol.JPG

Something about legs...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/holleg.JPG

Dunno...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/holbr.JPG

My costume... and work it did:
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/jerholkb.JPG

Bud Girls (real ones, not costumes)...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/budgirls.jpg

Welcome to Jack in the Box...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/jb.jpg

Jess all tramped up...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/jess.jpg

School's in session...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/kat.jpg

Score!
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/ref.jpg

Stay down there!
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/ride.jpg

Dunno either...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/sg.jpg

Last but not least...
http://www.jbspencer.com/hallow/ps.jpg
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ahahahah, I wore the same costume last night...totally insane.

Made out with like 10-15 chicks.
 
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mostly FINE women, and you look maddd drunk.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AHH Yes Halloween the perfect holiday that gives girls an excuse to dress like sluts, don't you love it?
 
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Originally posted by qweretyuiopas
AHH Yes Halloween the perfect holiday that gives girls an excuse to dress like sluts, don't you love it?
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Indeed. It really begs the question: What is society coming to?


Ben
 
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Originally posted by Sargeholic
Ahahahah, I wore the same costume last night...totally insane.

Made out with like 10-15 chicks.
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Verified.

Oh and it was funny to see a black guy try to steal his fake $100 bill.
 
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lol... I ended up only making $4, but since the costume cost me $25 (I negotiated with the manager from $50) I'd say it wasn't a bad deal... of course, if I hadn't given group discounts out to parties of 2 or more I would have made a lot more. My max was 5 girls kissing me at the same time... there wasn't enough room for me to get a tongue in on all of them - only regret was that my g/f didn't take the picture.
 
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It was also great to see a girl make out with Sargeholic for a good 2 mins. in front of a guy she was with and he was chewing her out afterwards.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Abbott
Indeed. It really begs the question: What is society coming to?


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Answer= closer to what it should be!
 
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That's sweet! I went to a Bar in Columbus and saw a lotta hotties in nice outfits there too. Unfortunately I wasn't feeling well so I didn't really Sarge or talk to girls at ALL!

Anyways, glad to see that at least you had a good time and thanks again for sharing the eye candy!
 
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Originally posted by Void
Answer= closer to what it should be!
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I'll drink to that. :)

I love All Hallows Eve

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dam dude!! they dont make girls like that in my area....incredible! how did you meet your girl? (here comes the angry RUN A SEARCH).
 
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Holly is an extremely fine looking chick, thumbs up for her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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your girl is fine as hell son. those other girls u took pics of are bad as hell too.
 
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